I (23M) really like this girl (28F) after going on one date. I thought things went well. During the date, she was the one mentioning we should hang out again. We arranged a second date fairly quickly. 3 days after the first one.

The night before our second date, I text her “looking forward to seeing you tomorrow” when she then tells me “I might end up having to work tomorrow but it's not a for sure thing yet so I'll let you know in the morning..” she didn’t let me know until the afternoon of our second date that she did end up going to work, how she woke up late had to rush to work and “completely forgot to let me know” and blah. She said “sad I didn't get to see you today” and I told her “Oh yeah me too definitely a letdown, but just let me know whenever you're available again” she said “Yess I definitely will” did I do that right??

One thing I find a bit odd is that she doesn’t reply after 9-9:30-ish PM. If I send a text any later than 9, I won’t be getting a reply until mid next morning. This was an ongoing thing ever since I got her number. She still asks questions though if I leave things at a statement.

It’s never been this hard for me to read a girl before. Usually I know if they like me or not. But damn. I can’t tell if I’m just being impatient. I want to say fuck it and just ask her out again instead of waiting for her to tell me when she’s free next. Seddit.. what do I dooo?