Tons of rejections.This kills me slowly and torturously

nuyets · 2022-05-21T08:15:37+00:00

Seduction is more than have the balls to talk to her. Think about you clothing, what are your topics in a conversation, how you approach to her, your fcking facial expressions are important!!

UrFavPlayerIsBack · 2022-05-21T06:00:25+00:00

Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results (c)

Ok-Professional2756 · 2022-05-21T05:53:25+00:00

Most likely you have no baseline in looks, language and social grace. Until you have this, it’s pointless. Start by going on dates with fatties from tinder. This will give you practice. You are probably 2-3 years away from doing daygame

2022-05-21T07:37:30+00:00

Probably you don't feel like a model material for quick hookup in these circumstances. It often takes a lot of attractive features to get a girl interested instantly and overcome "quick sex is slut" mentality. I think that many guys believe that there is some quick trick that can make your game instantly better, where it is sometimes a long way to go until you present yourself as valuable male. Take care of your hygiene, wear good clothes, get nice haircut, get some perfume, take care of your body fitness, take good posture and deep voice, look confidently at the girl, choose proper words. You need to improve on the whole.

taylorskyblue · 2022-05-21T12:53:06+00:00

You're confident, but you don't have competency. You need experience and knowledge to be competent. Don't take the rejections personally, and actually the most outgoing and successful guys are the ones that have been through countless rejections. I know you're feeling down, here's a virtual hug.

Calamity__Bane · 2022-05-21T09:12:33+00:00

Don’t worry about it. If you keep up at this, eventually you’ll come to a point where randoms don’t even do it for you anymore, and you’ll need an extra challenge.

History-Rhymes- · 2022-05-21T09:41:57+00:00

Maybe you come across as too hungry my man.

Regardless of what it is, what you're going through is a great opportunity.

Now you got the opportunity to build up your mindset. A mindset that can handle rejections, loneliness and negativity. This is probably a challenge we all have to endure for life, but isn't a worthy pursuit?

Anyway, some things you can do

Keep approaching

Go to the gym

Meditate

Cold Showers

Read

Take walks in nature

Spend time in solitude and accept what and where you are

etc

DevOpsMuscleGuy · 2022-05-21T05:31:33+00:00

Let me know if this helps

https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/uugfxv/have_you_thought_about_approaching_with/

Also i can help you with fitness and nutrition.

If you have any questions on pumping iron or bodybuilding i'm here to help.

2022-05-21T07:42:22+00:00

But I thought cold approach was the answer?

Ok-Professional2756 · 2022-05-21T05:28:22+00:00

You pull yourself up and you say: I DONT GIVE A FUCK!!! IDGAF about what women think about me. Say it and repeat it 50 times a day until it seeps into your subconscious. And then get on with your life. The right pussy will come along eventually.

2022-05-21T09:45:21+00:00

If you are tired then it's time to quit. That energy will be visible to women you talk to and that's no good. It can also eat away at your self-esteem if you keep getting rejected and don't get any wins.

Informal_Fishing5729 · 2022-05-21T11:07:51+00:00

Nobody will admit that women in the world are NOT the same. Your results mostly depends over your look and self confidence of course but ALSO on the cultural context you’re surrounded with. The results you can have by approaching in US are totally different from the ones you can have by approaching in South America or Europe. If you want help you have to point this out.

Codi_Banks · 2022-05-21T14:46:46+00:00

A few questions:

How many women have you approached this month so far?

How do you usually initiate contract? What do you say?

How do they react to your opener? Are they rude? Uncomfortable? Flattered? Smiling?

What are your stats; height, weight, age, city, etc.?

Jackeduptriangle · 2022-05-21T23:25:42+00:00

What you look like? Lemme see lol

BeansBeansBeans2022 · 2022-05-21T23:57:29+00:00

If it makes you feel better I am a very attractive woman, and have been stood up on dates and rejected a lot. Its rough idk why.

2022-05-22T12:56:44+00:00

No offense and not to be mean but are you ugly ? If youre ugly it's way harder to come up to girls and talk to them and get a response

Title	Tons of rejections.This kills me slowly and torturously
Author	SDFFDS1
Upvotes	1
Comments	31
Date	May 21, 2022 5:11 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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