Rejection after rejection after rejection...Pls hélp

ObjectSpirited494 · 2021-06-18T12:47:46+00:00

You sound young, I went through the exact same thing. But if you stay on your grind, look after yourself things will improve

Western-Bite1759 · 2021-06-19T01:52:30+00:00

Forget about women. You don't need a woman in your life. A girlfriend/wife is a partner. A teammate. Not a part of you.

It sounds like you need to work on yourself buddy. Work out, find passions/hobbies, read some books and try to be as successful as you possibly can be. Do it for yourself. With that kind of lifestyle, it would be pretty weird if you still could not get a girl.

Practice your social skills as much as possible too. You can never practice enough.

I have known plenty of guys like you and all it took was for them to focus on themselves. They became a lot more interesting, fun and successful. Which is what women are looking for. Try to look the best you can and you will do just fine.

Try doing all of this. It will take a while, but will be worth it.

Digzkay · 2021-06-19T03:28:30+00:00

Why are you getting rejected, if you look closer every thing you need to know is in front of your eyes. How you approaching girls and when and where are you doing the approaches, i can help you if you need helping, you just need to find the reason for the failures before giving up

MalfuTheBrave · 2021-06-18T11:25:46+00:00

Needyness is not sexy, attractive or cool

dontbanmeagaindudes · 2021-06-18T11:58:21+00:00

Being needy is bad.

DB_Helper · 2021-06-18T12:03:26+00:00

Are you using an assertive style of communication?

NVC (Nonviolent Communication)
EAR (5 secrets)
Interpersonal Gap (Wallen)
Active Listening (Carl Rogers)
Taking Boundaries (Pia Mellody)

Are you appropriately esteeming yourself?

Facing Love Addiction
Beyond Codependency
Feeling Great
The Happiness Trap

Are you validating most people you meet?

Models
I Hear You (Sorenson)
Intimate Connections
How Conversations Work (but Curzan)

You only need one from each category, but it's good to know at least a couple. Without those, it's easy to start the conversation, but impossible to build further connection.

I spent years (like 40 years) thinking I was ugly because I don't know this stuff, and couldn't figure out why I always got rejected.

Lazlo25 · 2021-06-18T12:13:12+00:00

If you’re that desperate, heavily lower your standards on dating apps and when approaching women. Otherwise, you’ve gotta stay on the grind, learning game and becoming an attractive dude

Title	Rejection after rejection after rejection...Pls hélp
Author	SDFFDS1
Upvotes	2
Comments	15
Date	June 18, 2021 11:16 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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