First date in 5 years

CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-05-12T12:27:01+00:00

Avoid telling her that you haven’t gone out on a date for 4 years.

Avoid looking confused and like you don’t know what to do, always act like you know how to handle a date, when you are with her.

Avoid saying that you have been lonely and avoid apologising or justifying yourself if you do something awkward.

In other words, don’t let the girl feel like you have no clue how to behave on a date or how to treat girls.

Nothing worst than a guy saying stuff like: “Sorry, i just don’t know what I’m supposed to do in this situation as I haven’t dated for a long time and i’m kinda rusty”

Don’t say that stuff to her.

You need to flirt with her which is when you create sexual tension by behaving like you desire her sexually.

Flirting isn’t about safe compliments like “you look pretty or you look nice or your eyes are pretty”…

Flirting is more sexual and risky, like “Can you repeat that, i got lost with your eyes” “My bad, got distracted looking at your lips, what were you saying?” “The way you smile at me is making me heart pump faster right now”…

You also need to avoid job interviews, a date is about playing like kids and making her feel emotions, like laughter, surprise, sexual tension, playful drama,…

A date is not about proving you are a suitable candidate for her , or to impress her, or to prove your worth.

MeWuzBornIn1990 · 2022-05-12T12:24:21+00:00

Just take it easy and be yourself. You’re not trying to impress your date — you just want to casually get to know one another and see if you have common interests and whatnot. Also, make lighthearted conversation throughout the date and keep from making it like an interview where you’re grilling each other. Don’t be afraid to tease her and make jokes!

kiramdahanett · 2022-05-12T12:35:33+00:00

I'm happy for U brother .

. I've been single for about 4 years now but I haven't had much luck getting a date until now. Any advice?

nothing , anything people say will make you "over excited" and you may fuck up your chances to get laid

only thing to do is : DO NOT TELL HER ANYTHING ABOUT THIS 4-5 YEAR , let her think you constantly date & shit .

that's all

& yea , try to pull her home at the end if possible.

nevertextgoodnight · 2022-05-12T13:37:50+00:00

Listen to comedy you like as you're getting ready. Get yourself laughing before you head out

Just remember "light and playful" is the mood you want

She's just looking for a good time with a fun guy

And don't text her after the date

verticalstars · 2022-05-12T13:35:34+00:00

My prediction is your going to screw it up and theres not gonna be a 2nd date. So just enjoy the moment and take it as a learning experience.

Reasons-

-You will be nervous (lack of recent experience)

-You will pedestalize her

-You will be needy

But seriously.. what did you do in 5 years? You were so busy with work you didnt even have time to date?

Title	First date in 5 years
Author	Algae_Natural
Upvotes	0
Comments	9
Date	May 12, 2022 12:16 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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