PUA advice vs developing your own style

kiramdahanett · 2022-05-04T18:44:23+00:00

No more youtube PUAs , no more Game books , no more how to get girls videos & posts.

go out & try it on your own , go your own way .

pickup is not an academic science , you don't need a mentor , you have to be self taught & no , there's no such thing as a course/book that gets you from beginner to advanced .

ONLY way to learn & become a beast is to put the phone down & approach.

nevertextgoodnight · 2022-05-04T23:00:46+00:00

PUA YouTube creates a false reality. They only post their successful interactions, they have the time to have way more interactions than most people since they are content creators (no 9-5 job), and also the new thing is to have an obvious camera man which they use to get girls excited to be in front of the camera. Also, many times they just get a number after they do a whole song and dance for footage but after you get a few #s you'll realize a number close is extremely flakey and pretty easy to do

Listen I'm not saying there isn't a kind of finesse to it, but don't get swept away in the rabbit hole

Bottom line is you need to go out there and really see what it's like

kettlebell_workout · 2022-05-04T18:42:07+00:00

PUA style is like clothing style. You need to master the basics and once you have it then you can incorporate some sprezzatura.

Contango6969 · 2022-05-04T19:26:45+00:00

Its both. If you have terrible anxiety and are a hard case you probably just want to stick to some kind of a script as training wheels. If you arent so bad then you dont need any of that its more about internalizing a few key principles. For me that was mostly "freedom from outcome" and "self amusement". But there are also a few really good lines and responses for shit tests you should naturally start to accumulate. I still pretty much copy a beckster routine for disqualifying, escalating, initiating physical contact because its just fucking money.

incognito3107 · 2022-05-05T06:04:46+00:00

I guess most PUAs job is about changing your mindset and showing that many things are possible. You need to adapt things that resonate with you and work on yourself to get your compact seduction personality.

Title	PUA advice vs developing your own style
Author	electrisio
Upvotes	1
Comments	5
Date	May 4, 2022 6:31 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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