Getting a "maybe" as an answer for a date !

fnordsnord · 2018-03-19T21:55:56+00:00

You're done. Chase other women. A woman who is attracted to you does not act like this. Find one that's attracted to you.

refusewool · 2018-03-19T20:49:27+00:00

Anything but a strong yes is a soft next. Assume she isn’t interested and move on. If she reinitiates, give her a final chance but only accept a time and date. Don’t enter her orbit if she just wants a texting buddy. Act normal in person but remain distant.

demoronan · 2018-03-19T21:38:19+00:00

It's a no in disguise. Forget her and move on.

319Skew · 2018-03-19T22:11:20+00:00

First don't ask. State that you're going to A and invite her to join you. If she says anything other than a "yes" or provides you with an alternative that you can work with then next her.

Maybe is just a polite way of saying no or keeping you around in case. Fuck that noise and game other women.

walawalawa · 2018-03-19T23:53:33+00:00

This happens all the time in various forms.

If i get strong IOI's from the girl i may reach out one more time after a period of a week.

If i still get the wishy-washiness I cut contact.

But then I still get these wishy washy girls coming up to me at parties asking me to dance or chit-chatting.

I've learned that if that happens and she doesn't contact me...i cut it off.

oldslut · 2018-03-20T00:04:22+00:00

first of all, how did you ask her? meet me at bar "x" this thursday at 8pm, should have been the way. if she didn't respond with a yes, or an alternative, then you should have forgotten about her. ok, maybe a second try could be excused... that's it. fuck MAYBE. aren't you worth more than that?

juliusstreicher · 2018-03-20T01:53:24+00:00

She doesn't care about you, and doesn't want to fuck you. "Maybe' means "I don't want to be anywhere around you, but, I hope that you won't murder me for refusing, so, I'll give some lame ass response...hmmm...I know: Maybe!"

fulleraids · 2018-03-20T02:19:24+00:00

I was 100% sure that maybe was essentially a no.

I asked a ONS out a few days after we had sex and got “maybe, I’ll let you know”

She texted later that week, “can I still come?” I said “sure, I was going with or without you”

been spinning her ever since (3 months)

Title	Getting a "maybe" as an answer for a date !
Author	JariFreyr
Upvotes	1
Comments	13
Date	March 19, 2018 8:43 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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