Why most girls I know get attracted to "bad boys"? Boys they don't deserve.

MJoe111 · 2022-04-16T12:41:13+00:00

Bad boys tend to be confident, manly and socially proactive - these are attractive qualities, that can deceive young and impressionable women. Especially in an age, where the majority of young men does not have them.

Arrogance and rudeness are byproducts of being a bad boy, but they are not attractive on their own.

Canadian-Seductioner · 2022-04-16T15:03:37+00:00

They're not attracted to the fact that these boys treat them badly, they're attracted to the fact that these boys are fun, fit, confident, charming, and exciting. If you picked up all of these qualities and also treated them well, you'd also attract them.

flirty_guy17 · 2022-04-16T19:56:06+00:00

Bad boys are usually more confident, spontaneous, adventurous, exciting.

My method is to mix the two. Treating a worthy girl like a princess outside and my whore in the bedroom. Occassionally being unpredictable and doing something fun works too

CocoBabeNYC · 2022-04-16T11:02:56+00:00

You are going to be in for a painful life my friend.

MJoe111 · 2022-04-16T13:11:53+00:00

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MJoe111 · 2022-04-16T13:40:40+00:00

What makes them dumber than you? Seems like they’ve figured some things out. Intelligence is multiple.

MJoe111 · 2022-04-16T13:50:51+00:00

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MJoe111 · 2022-04-16T18:08:25+00:00

Bad boys tend to be masculine, assertive, non-needy, confident, social, fun, sexual, and physically attractive. If I was a woman I'd be attracted them too rather than some boring overly nice super needy guy who isn't attractive at all.

atomant88 · 2022-04-16T09:04:44+00:00

maybe you have bad taste in women? or maybe your female friends are young and naive? its easy to mistake arrogance, or rudeness for confidence when youre young and dumb

Grappleheart · 2022-04-16T12:03:42+00:00

You sound like Elliot Rodger. "Why won't girls date me a super smart braniac and keep dating lesser men?". I'll be honest with you. Maybe those guys you called dumb are better than you at something. Maybe they are more fit. Maybe they hold conversation better. Maybe their lives are more interesting etc. You might need to improve on a couple of these things.

Also I have found in my experience that many people who are "bad boys" simply treat the women around them the same as the men. If they clown their male friends they also clown their female friends etc. They don't treat the women around them special which no one should at least until the relationship becomes serios.

Also people deserve who they choose. This whole idea that people are choosing people below them is shit. If a girl chooses to date an ugly guy she deserves hime because she choose him.

MJoe111 · 2022-04-16T09:13:35+00:00

They are probably good looking, fun, chill.

You sound very judgmental.

FullbackBoi · 2022-04-16T13:02:16+00:00

You sound like, and I don’t want to sound rude, a simp. You hate these alpha males because they are able to get girls, which also tells me you are an incel. My only advice is to do some sort of PUA course.

CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-04-16T15:35:09+00:00

Because women are not vending machines that you put kindness coins until sex or affection comes out.

Women are not moral guardians that have to judge which guy did good deeds to determine which of them gets rewarded with sex.

Also, so called nice guys, aren’t that nice, dee down they only act like nice guys because they hope their kindness will rewarded with sex, and if it doesn’t then they whine and say the woman is ungrateful or led them on…

Girls date attractive guys, those guys have something attractive, some are very witty and are good at flirting, and making the girl feel emotions which is the key of attraction, some are just very fit, have a great physique, and that’s attractive, some are just very confident, some are just very funny and fun to spend time with…

So called nice guys don’t have those, they tend to be insecure, and they just try to do shot for the girl that they wouldn’t do for anybody else, hoping it will get rewarded… They look for a woman’s approval, because they think a girl approving their behaviour is equal to attraction, those guys think women don’t like sex or that wanting sex is perverted and as such they try to focus on “love” and romance before they have had sex which is a mistake.

Sex should come first, while love and relationship should come later. Why? Because sexual attraction is essential for a girl to want something with you. Without sexual attraction a relationship will likely never happen.

Nice guys think they are being smart by differentiating themselves from bad boys, trying to project themselves as nice guys who would never cheat on the girl, because they truly like the girl, as if decent treatment was something that should earn them points just some because women don’t get treated nicely.

Also, it’s not that they cheat on them that attracts them, or that they do bad stuff. It’s that they have more attractive qualities like social skills, humor, looks, height, confidence, etc

Why does intellect not work as much? Because guys with a higher intellect tend to be quite reserved, introverts, not daring enough, and quite boring and logical in the way they speak to women… Their idea of fun is discussing boring topics with girls, that makes them fall asleep at best. They aren’t fun people to talk with, it’s all dull conversations filled with questions and rational logical answers, no surprises, no humour, no sexual tension, all boring…

It’s not that you have to be arrogant or rude, but more like playful, and cocky. Fun and cocky isn’t the same as arrogant, arrogance is acting you are better than everyone else, like everyone is inferior to you.

Cocky and funny is pretending to be arrogant but in a way that it’s obviously not serious, but more like a fun facade… The girl knows you are joking, that you don’t seriously think you are above everyone else.

Like if you said to the girl “we both are the most good looking people in this country” that’s an exaggeration which is funny because it also includes her.

MJoe111 · 2022-04-16T13:26:13+00:00

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Iistendipshit · 2022-04-16T11:26:53+00:00

Why do you think they deserve better? If they don't why do you?

Social_cynicism · 2022-04-16T22:12:12+00:00

Because they are hot.

Title	Why most girls I know get attracted to "bad boys"? Boys they don't deserve.
Author	MJoe111
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Comments	48
Date	April 16, 2022 8:55 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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