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Liberaler · 2022-04-03T07:05:22+00:00

Treat her like a normal girl and don't try to stage yourself as upper class and academic, if you are not. You should not try to compete with her in the fields she is good at.

Your strength is that you are different from her normal social circle (rich people).

extremely high value (genius, extremely wealthy, etc)

Are these really the things, that make a women high value?

Dracron · 2022-04-03T09:45:18+00:00

I wouldn't put much more effort towards her after that. If she was interested in another date she would've worked on finding a time where you could've met again. When she says she will tell you when she's free, that means she would rather you not pester her for another and is likely planning to ghost you. If she message you again on her own then do what you can, but it seems like you just didn't click on her side.

Thats ok, though. You actually went on a date, and now you can learn from some of the things you did. Like were you touching her because it felt natural or did it feel forced, if it felt forced how do you make it feel more normal to do so. Did you get her to laugh and have a good time before you initiated "not kino"? Did you have her up on a pedestal to the point where you were acting star struck and didn't even notice how she was reacting?

Extremely high value means she still a woman and a human. Most women don't want a worshipper, they want a friend to hang with and occasionally having sexy times with. When you focus on the fact that she's a genius or very wealthy you start subconsciously putting qualifiers on what she wants or deserves. Some women like that end up with guys that bring nothing to the table, because they found someone that doesn't give a shit about all of that and that is both rare and refreshing to them. They can trust that when they ask their lover about their opinion on something they like, it's not just glowing praise because they can't bring themselves to criticize them.

That is why inner game is so important. You have to believe you are someone that is equal in value to the people you are trying to date and not make assumptions about their wants until you get a sign from them that points you in a certain way.

Knowing they are extremely wealthy doesn't tell you much, maybe they hate their family and want to fuck the first thing they see. Maybe they love them, but they want to experience the world as a hippie. You just don't know. Asking questions that would let her tell you that is a lot better than asking what they want out of their dating app, because the latter is just small talk that has little reason to move things forward. Of course, you can make both things work for you, but you want to get her engaged in interacting with you. Once you have that and you get her to laugh and relax her guard a bit, that's when you bring in the light kino and if you did it right she might lean into it or kino back. Then you just have fun and maybe invite her back to your place, set up a second date or whatever you want to get out of the situation, because if its clear shes having a fun time then she will almost assuredly want to either continue to escalate or repeat the experience.

Even if this one was an L there are ways to come out ahead of where you were before you went on the date and can carry that into the future.

dltnstls · 2022-04-03T06:52:20+00:00

How did she react when you touched her? Judging by her answer when you asked her what she was looking for as well as when you asked for a second date, she doesn't see you as a romantic partner.

SquareOver4413 · 2022-04-03T06:58:41+00:00

If she's a "high value" extremely wealthy, genius etc; I can contest people will want to associate themselves with her for their own interest. Be forward and make your intentions clear- have a date in mind and just go for it.

mightymite88 · 2022-04-03T07:45:10+00:00

same as with ANY OTHER FEMALE. dont overthink this. shes only human. she has the same emotions and the same sex drive as anyone else. turn her on and escalate with consent

CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-04-03T13:42:31+00:00

Your date was mediocre, which is why she is now busy, when’s girl says she is busy 99% of the time she is turning you down politely, she hopes you get the clue.

When a girl is truly into you she ain’t busy for you.

What you can learn from this is:

Don’t put her in a pedestal like that again no matter her situation
If you do Kino, don’t be shy about it like you were, instead own it with confidence next time. Make it intentional, grab her hands, tell her you are gonna read her future, caress her palm her fingers her wrists while you look into her eyes and lips, tell her she is fascinating and sexy with a smile, invade her personal space her closer to her, and go for a kiss.
Dont ask her what she wants, it’s irrelevant what she wants, what matters is that you make something happen, you are in a date, you are attracted sexually to her, so behave like you do, because in this date you didn’t.
If she is wealthy and shit like that don’t act like that’s something incredible or unique, instead tease her about it, like: “oh look at you being so posh”. You can even Imitate her in an absurd way by acting posh all the time for fun, even using a British accent to amplify the joke

You: “How much is it, ma lady? Oh a 100 dollars? Ok here take 500 and keep the change”

Jokes like this to tease her for fun, are better than acting like she is special for being wealthy.

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