She is flirty with me in person but takes ages to answer online

Monopoly41 · 2022-03-26T21:16:39+00:00

She just keeps your in her orbit with giving you bare minimum. Do you think if Drake messaged her she would take 2 hours to respond ? She prob would message in 5 mins . Lord , 16 hours ? I even forget I messaged someone after couple hours.

If she does not respond in 30 mins , just move on. Don’t even use your energy on her

norwegiandoggo · 2022-03-26T21:02:50+00:00

Totally normal situation. Just continue with her and assume she likes you. Some people are slow texters until you are dating. There could be a million reasons for their texting slowness, don't you worry about that. Have you asked her out on a date yet? That's the more important thing

jellybean_cray · 2022-03-26T22:41:42+00:00

Ask her out? No point to swim in the friend zone and speculate

Impressive_Sport_713 · 2022-03-26T20:51:40+00:00

From the info. Shes flirty because thats her personality and in person shes just in a situation where she has to talk to you or be bored. Its why youre not worth her time outiside of in person for her to respond

BangaiiWatchman · 2022-03-26T21:34:45+00:00

I’ve been in this situation. If I could go back I’d tell myself to either just shoot your shot or give up. If she was actually interested in you she’d prioritize responding. Sorry guy. Hope I’m wrong.

lalita33 · 2022-03-26T22:46:10+00:00

some people just aren’t on their phones that much, like if i have a busy day i don’t text anyone back for hours. but if i like someone ill usually respond within the hour. you should ask her in a non confrontational way to get the truth from her. keep in mind that you cant change anyone and it doesn’t sound like you’re ok with her being a slow texter if thats what the issue is.

DanielFromCucked · 2022-03-26T22:54:45+00:00

Only text for logistics. If you're flirty in person why are you not escalating? You'll know real quick if she's using you for attention or actually wants you

Canadian-Seductioner · 2022-03-26T23:15:57+00:00

My last girlfriend was exactly like this. It's extremely annoying, but you just need to accept it. I've lost other girls by calling them out on this so your best bet is to just try to get over it as best you can. Some girls are just like this and that's just how they are.

2manymugs · 2022-03-26T23:39:08+00:00

Chatting online is boring. Flirting in person is fun. Pretty simple!

I prefer to interact in person, she may be the same.

greatresponsitrility · 2022-03-26T21:31:03+00:00

Have you asked her? No one here knows what she’s thinking man.

Title	She is flirty with me in person but takes ages to answer online
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Date	March 26, 2022 8:20 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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