If a girl is showing you a message (it was relevant and made sense for her to show me it) but doesn’t make an effort to hide the fact she’s getting essentially spammed by other dudes, what should I make of it?

Daunt02 · 2022-03-24T19:54:13+00:00

Are you her boyfriend? If not don't give a shit. Most women of somewhat quality has dozens of dudes sliding into her messages. You're the one she's with right now. You're winning. There is no competition when you keep your frame.

Live-Ad-6309 · 2022-03-24T21:42:14+00:00

Every girls DMs are full of thirsty dudes. Only time it matters is if they're all in her texts, instead of IG or snap or smth. And then, only if she's "exclusive"

Manners2210 · 2022-03-24T19:56:24+00:00

Depends, only she can answer that because it’s all about her agenda here. Maybe she had no agenda. Either way, who gives a shit, just focus on you

Delicious_Ad_1853 · 2022-03-24T21:08:15+00:00

You should assume that she's an attractive woman and attractive women always get plenty of attention.

But you already knew that.

What you really want to know is whether you should ask her out. Of course you should! That answer is always yes.

What's the alternative? Sitting around for months or years jerking off to fantasies about her while never actually dating her? Fuck that. You don't want that path.

2022-03-24T23:42:24+00:00

I doubt she thought about it really and neither should you. That’s a fact of life. Don’t get in your head about it and understand that universal truth.

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