What is 'FRAME' and what is 'FRAME CONTROL' ??

norwegiandoggo · 2022-03-14T08:25:38+00:00

Frame: View / narrative

Frame control: Controlling the view / narrative

Example: Putin says the Ukraine invasion is a "special military operation, to liberate the people of Ukraine from Nazi rulers". He is trying to control the view / narrative. Putin is using an attempt at frame control.

Date example: She says: ”You're a player aren't you?” You reply with "and I love it". She's might be trying to "frame" that being a player is bad and you should feel bad for being a player. You reject the frame and instead counter a new narrative: That there's nothing wrong with being a player. Note: I'm not saying you should do this. It's just an example of frame control.

In the autobiography of Steve Jobs, people around him said that he creates a "reality distortion field". His narrative is so strong that people believe it, even if it makes no sense and isn't real. Translation: Steve Jobs is excellent at frame control. He has a strong, powerful, compelling narrative, and many people around him accept it as reality.

People are always battling for a certain narrative. This is often referred to as "Discourse" in the Social sciences. Read more about this here: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Discourse

The person who controls the narrative, exerts more control of the situation.

iedaiw · 2022-03-14T08:01:57+00:00

okay imagine you are in a bar listening to some music, and you like it a lot. so you bob and groove along to it.

then comes a girl who says the music sucks, bla bla people who listen to these kind of music are losers etc.

a) be a cuck and say yeah this song kinda sucks

b) maintain your "frame" and keep on enjoying the music. She will either a) slowly change her mind or b) find someone else who shares her view. either way is a win for you.

mightymite88 · 2022-03-15T10:01:52+00:00

frame is your perception of the world. in my frame im the ultimate object of desire.

frame control is making other people perceive the world the way you do. frame control will be me convincing people that i am the ultimate object of desire.

in your frame im probably just some geek on the internet. i need to break your frame, reject it, and destroy it. and replace it with my frame. i need to 'reframe' your perceptions of me.

its basically a shorthand for branding yourself or selling yourself. marketing. you could even call it psychological manipulation, but i think thats a bit extreme personally

Important-Quote9544 · 2022-03-14T08:01:37+00:00

none of this matters stop consuming these dating coach content.

Truth is if she is attracted this frame shit does not matter.

If you are attractive to her she will make things easy for you.

If she thinks you are ugly from the beginning you holding your masculine frame will not suddenly turn her on

affinity94 · 2022-03-23T04:47:07+00:00

Some other Redditors have explained it really well.

Here’s an example of how it can be used.

Todd V How To Pass A Shit Test

Just like previous posts, you can use it to create a reality for yourself. However, you need water tight confidence and strong belief in that frame. People can sense incongruent behavior easily just by the slightest change in body language, voice tonality, vibe, etc. Believe me people can sense through text and phone calls. To me it starts inward and takes dedication to become that and then eventually your frame becomes a lifestyle. Eventually that’s what you would want for yourself anyways right?

Title	What is 'FRAME' and what is 'FRAME CONTROL' ??
Author	GazelleLast
Upvotes	11
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Date	March 14, 2022 7:53 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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