Really need help!

DeliberatelyInsane · 2022-03-09T11:01:20+00:00

The first step is working on yourself. From the tone of your post it looks like you suffer from low self-esteem. Remedy that first. You got it mate chin up. And don’t worry much about your genetics. Even those who aren’t good looking, they can find ways to look good. Just by doing basic things like being in a better shape and dressing well can do tons for how you look. Just work on yourself mate.

azizbadaasjsj · 2022-03-09T08:47:52+00:00

U don't need to be a convo god to have sex , some boring ass stuff is all you need & you SHOULD wing your convos after that , with most irrelevant and boring shit ( doesn't matter ).

i can teach you thousands of ways to flirt & escalate or give you hundreds of phrases but honestly you don't need them .

all you need , anytime anywhere is approaching & saying : "hey my name is X,i thought you're really cute had to say hi "

Main thing is having balls to approach , the rest is just playing numbers game & winging it .

mightymite88 · 2022-03-09T08:45:55+00:00

Start by reading the wiki

Chicagoj1563 · 2022-03-09T17:23:24+00:00

The answer is pretty simple. You need to immerse yourself in social activity with the focus on having fun. No worries, no self judgement, no expectations. Just talking to people and enjoying the process. That's going to fix alot of these mindsets you have right now and from there you can learn how to better socialize, approach women, or whatever your interests are. Whenever you find that you are judging yourself, try to replace that with laughing at yourself or just not taking it seriously. Learn how to do that with practice. Again, you can learn better social skills along the way.

You can start by trying to be more conversational with people at school. Just talk to people sitting nearby. Are any of them attractive women? Talk about anything going on in the class. Make jokes. Be sarcastic. Again, no self judgement. Just talk to people. If anything you say gives you social anxiety, thats good. It means you are stretching yourself. That's how you improve. Then seek out other places you can socialize with more people.

ThugBoi · 2022-03-09T22:51:06+00:00

I am 22 and never had gf too or kissed one. You should not think too much about it. I think you will find one naturally either at school or in the gym. However you need to feel good about yourself and take care of yourself before you get a gf. You need confidence to ask someone out. Start exercising at the gym, dress as you feel cool, smell nice, etc. Go to a club with some friends if you have. Being with people you trust will boost your confidence and courage to ask someone out.

Right now you should just focus on yourself. You feel low on confidence and blame it on your looks. You already know your problems. So start fixing them, before you get another person in your life that also has problems.

ZookeepergameUsual13 · 2022-03-10T03:22:05+00:00

Just pretend your a mute,forget all the rest.Make them laugh and you got'em.Back to convo....practice,practice,every chic you see say hi,its a beautiful day.Then let them talk.......Then make up excuses to talk to them. Do you know where the library is , do you know where the headshop is, How do I get to nipple lane,etc.Practice on female relatives, Explain your sad situation And practice talking to them, I nailed my hot blonde cousin that was 4 years older than me by the way I have no morals she's just waiting for f****** hot. Also nailed my hot stepmom 12 years older than me but so did everybody else.Good luck.

Title	Really need help!
Author	Bproc14
Upvotes	1
Comments	10
Date	March 9, 2022 8:42 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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