I’ve been hitting gym for over a month now and will push harder now.

But I still think I’m not good at a particular place which this sub values the most under teachable skills.

The social skill, the skill to make friends and be an extrovert which make you meet lots of people and teaches you to captivate any new person in your life, get their number, become friends etc.

I had no friends group to watch the super bowl and have no date for the valentine. I don’t have a friends group to hangout with every weekend like how movies and tv shows portraits young adult having. I’m a grad in a university and meet bunch of students at my part time student assistantship work.

How do I learn the people’s skill? I wanna be that out going person and just have fun in life. And then later comes the seduction.

No matter how much I bulk my body with muscles I won’t get anywhere if I don’t get good at this.

There is this girl I meet at my work somethings, we’re both students and my work is an assistantship on campus so it’s cool to make conversations but I want to escape this frame and hangout with her, get her contact etc. And to my surprise there is this other cute girl who also came by twice last week, she made efforts in making conversation with me multiple times as I was also doing the same and during the second visit she asked for my insta and snap. So I think I can similarly be the one to ask the former girl I want to talk to. I get really nervous and my heart rate shoots wild when she comes by, this wasn’t the case last semester as I wasn’t that interested in her, so I know I’m putting lot of pressure on this but I at least want to try something.

And at this point I’m really frustrated that I don’t have the skills to talk to people and neither make friends or get a date.