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[–]Irrelephant_867 71 points72 points73 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Nah, all physical acts require consent. You consent to her touching you. She does not consent to you touching her without entering "relationship status". Either enjoy the handies or begin the discussions of what exclusivity means to her and stick to those boundaries.
You can't control other peoples actions only your own.
[–]SpookyKG 44 points45 points46 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You're overreacting.
She has told you her limits. She enjoys some things but not others.
Now, you get to decide - do you want to keep doing this with her? If so, keep doing it.
If not, then tell her you're not interested in this.
[–]PuroPincheGains 17 points18 points19 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
She told you her limits. You're either cool with them or not. Either wife her up or move on, I personally have a boundary of not getting into a relationship with someone I haven't slept with lol
[–]byteseed 11 points12 points13 points 4 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link
Hardly any woman worth investing your time for so long without sex. In my experience, 3 dates is average time when a woman is ready to have sex with you. 6-7 dates are really stretching your investment. My favorite relationships started with sex on the 1st or 2nd date, due to the strong sexual tension between me and my partner.
Sex is not worth the wait. Building comfort destroys sexual tension. You cannot go into relationship without knowing if you both are sexually compatible at all. And there is no guarantee that any relationship will even exist at this point.
You have the right to be annoyed, just continue with other women and go on with other dates. That’s not a big deal, to not have sex, it is good to respect boundaries.
You done well, now find another woman.
[–]oreopimp 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
My favorite relationships started with sex on the 1st or 2nd date, due to the strong sexual tension between me and my partner.
This right here. Anything more than this no matter how much I may like the girl, I definitely would be hanging out with others.
To OP: she did mention her boundaries. You genuinely have to be cool with that, while occasionally doing your job and pushing slightly against her boundaries a little and seeing if she responds positively or in the negative -- but you have to respect her needs and wants. If that is something you can't work with -- move on, or start dating others and keep her as a low-key hang out buddy
[–]ReadingThen4732 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Exactly, keeping her as a cool girl friend who makes out with you, and touches your dick sometimes, sounds right. Stay disciplined, respect her boundaries, and date other women. I wouldn’t say she’s leading you on, because she’s told you were she stood at. Your in a situation every single dude would love and every boyfriend would hate 🤣
[–]Moejason 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You’re over reacting - you’re allowed your boundaries as much as she is allowed hers, she’s not leading you on - she’s been very clear with where she stands on intimacy, you should respect it.
[–]Banned4othersFault 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I cannot give you any advice cause lm single
-this is a shitpost
[–]rrfox31 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You sure as hell have no “right” to be annoyed by HER boundaries. She owes you nothing.
Their her boundaries. You should respect them and not push them.
Also, if you agree to enter into a relationship with her purely because you want her to play with your dick, then that makes you the asshole.
Please don’t be an asshole. 🙏🏽
[+]Uoger -6 points-5 points-4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You’re getting played. You’re the beta bitch who buys her shit and to keep you around she gives you a little here and there. She saves her pussy for Chad Thundercock.
[+]JacobMoogberg69 -7 points-6 points-5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
She is manipulating you. What are you going to do with a girl who doesn't even allow you to touch her there?
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