How to gain her interest back?

CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-01-20T10:28:21+00:00

That’s the thing:

If they pull away you enter a dilema.

You insist because you don’t want them to think that “you don’t care” however insisting can lead to over investment and looking desperate which is even more off putting.

Overall with girls, not caring enough tends to work better than caring too much.

It’s usually better to act like you don’t care that much, making it clear that while you might want them, you don’t need them.

Anyway if she pulls back, it’s not so much about what remedy you can use but rather what prevention mechanism you can use. If they all pull back, you may wanna focus on how to prevent that, and analysing what it’s going on before they start pulling back.

Therocksays2020 · 2022-01-20T08:25:43+00:00

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DunionKnight · 2022-01-20T08:44:40+00:00

Here’s a better strategy. As you’re working on game and all the skills that go along with that. Make sure that the effort going into your career, finances, health, and so on, is always a little more. That way the “meta,” which is you, is constantly improving.

Slowly but surely you’ll find yourself in greater abundance. Your behavior will change, and they’ll get a sense of that. So even if one falls off. It’s not big deal. Because there are other options. Even if you meat a girl worth... three. You’ll have three options that make up for the one. And you’re left unbothered by it because you know there’s more.

Sup3rHD · 2022-01-20T20:07:52+00:00

Todays women get bored so fast because they date a lot of guys.
Ghost her and talk to other girls, have self respect

AloofusMaximus · 2022-01-20T15:04:12+00:00

If it's a recurring problem, it's probably something YOU are doing.

People do change their minds, but if you're seeing s pattern here it's likely something that you're doing is repulsive to them.

This is where a bit of self awareness/Introspection is going to help you fix whatever issue it is you're having.

Ambitious-Ice2357 · 2022-01-21T05:31:29+00:00

Care less then they care ,and if they suddenly don’t care or stop caring at all consider yourself lucky. The only one you should care about is you.

Title	How to gain her interest back?
Author	bernievg
Upvotes	2
Comments	10
Date	January 20, 2022 8:15 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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