What Kind of Starting Message Will attract girls to reply in DM in insta if a girl is stranger

Shady-DrugDealer · 2022-01-19T15:04:30+00:00

I once told an IG model with +500k followers that I found her nudes in PH,

she replied: "what nude pics?"

I replied: "the ones you're about to send me :)"

She blocked me, and I never saw her ever again.

Totally worth it.

norwegiandoggo · 2022-01-19T08:12:38+00:00

Whether women choose to reply has 90% to do with your profile, and maybe only 10% to do with what you write her.

You could have the best first message in the world. But if you don't seem like an attractive, interesting guy with some social status in your profile, then the content of your first message doesn't matter.

Arcchimedes · 2022-01-19T08:13:24+00:00

Usually I send a cold read, so anything that tells the girl I understand her world. I’ve found this to be the most successful.

Also reply to the girl’s stories as opposed to directly DMing her. Stories are generally more successful.

2022-01-19T09:17:28+00:00

Might work

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DHBP2VL6DYM

But still, she wouldn't reply for:

She's already got a lot of followers and doesn't check her messages
You aren't attractive enough or Don't have a lit life you are showing off on your socials.

monkey36937 · 2022-01-19T09:27:01+00:00

If you are a loser in real life just give up on ig game, it all about showing off your life. Believe me most of them are fake lives. So you either get good at online game or cold approach.

5_7pickup · 2022-01-19T07:51:00+00:00

IG game isnt about sending the perfect message. Its about having a lit IG and 500k followers. Otherwise your conversion rate is gonna be abysmal

Riuqlav · 2022-01-19T09:06:51+00:00

Think in what women seek, good genes and social security Your IG has to pass one good combination of both.

If you got 300 followers mostly your family, and your photos are selfies in the bathroom, and dark photos of a bar with your also unattractive buddies if gonna be hard

Remember you are one notification in a sea of horny dudes, hitting on her on her one hour lunch, you have to ask yourself what can I improve on my profile that would make her choose me.

My advise is go out and talk to girls, at that short moment you'll have her uninterrupted attention, il be able to show yourself, and be honest you can say "I am a shy guy I normally don't do this but I've seen you passing and I had to talk to you...." and go from there

Is a little time consuming and we are conditioned to believe this is unnatural but it's much better for you confidence, and your mental health

KingAlpaca__ · 2022-01-19T07:06:54+00:00

Dick pick

2022-01-19T17:53:48+00:00

On tinder I get like 98% answer rate using a first message that says something cool or funny about their profile or photos

PuroPincheGains · 2022-01-19T20:28:35+00:00

None. If your profile shows that you're a fookin rockstar that travels the world, models, spends time on boats, goes to fancy parties, etc., then you may get a reply. If your profile isn't like that, then you're just a creeper.

The-Bull89 · 2022-01-19T07:16:24+00:00

‘ 👋👋🖕’

I’ve gotten some solid lays with this one. Backfired a few times really bad though.

Usually get a ‘what’s up with the finger?’ or laughing emojis.

Just respond ‘that’s how a real man greets women 😎’. It’s satire of course but it can go over girls heads, but those are low IQ girls that aren’t worth your time anyway. Depending on how physically attractive you are , it can work wonders for you.

After that line, you’re going to have use your wits to steer the conversation.

EnvironmentalRule525 · 2022-01-19T17:26:01+00:00

Whether or not your tongue is buried in her ass by 10PM

Alive_Occasion8966 · 2022-01-19T20:35:35+00:00

Cold read, like?

simplevoodoo · 2022-01-20T02:02:05+00:00

Put some thought in the message but don't be creepy. No paragraphs, keep it short.

If she were an artist, perhaps ask about a piece. Or sensitivity. You can stereotype a little.

2022-01-20T04:18:33+00:00

Depends on the girl you are texting, some would reply with even a simple flirtatious text and others would block you with the most cheesiest of pickup lines.

Jezxiv · 2022-01-20T14:14:23+00:00

Instagram and social media to a larger extent is the most superficial platforms ever. You’d be surprised at the progress you’d make by simply getting envolved in outside activities that allow you to meet and build genuine relationships with real women.

I’d even suggest dating apps before insta. You don’t know her, she doesn’t know you. You have no real interest in her as a person you’re just attracted to her. Its very surface.

Arcchimedes · 2022-01-20T14:53:04+00:00

Your approach has to be congruent, it could be anything other than asking her out, commenting on her physical appearance or trying to be funny. Think “non offensive cat calling” if that makes sense. Then carrying the convo is the hard part

Title	What Kind of Starting Message Will attract girls to reply in DM in insta if a girl is stranger
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Date	January 19, 2022 7:05 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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