Where do you find the energy to go out every weekend?

Flaky-Impact-2428 · 2022-01-15T09:24:05+00:00

I go out at least once a week, despite being an introvert. I think this has became more of a habit than something I'd spontaneously do and it helps a lot with the mental health.

SaltLeader3687 · 2022-01-15T09:26:55+00:00

I go out a few times a week but Would limit my drinking. Now I don’t drink at all. It really affects your sleep.

I’m not always staying out late though. Usually I’m in bed by midnight

I think a lot depends on the kind of city you live in. My city is high energy. You walk down the street and every bar is busy constantly. It gives you a constant overbearing cloud of Fomo and forces you to get out of your apartment

Valuable-Factor-5468 · 2022-01-15T10:17:51+00:00

You'd be far better off not going out Friday or Saturday and reserving your energy for more interesting things. Go for hikes, cycles, runs or do side projects. Most other people are drunk or hungover all weekend and then the next week is on them and they made zero use of their free time.

Also I don't see the hype at all for night game, it's awful in my opinion and there is something very wrong about seeing guys running around chasing girls all night. Most high quality guys are meeting women through other means, network, apps, friends, other girls.

norwegiandoggo · 2022-01-15T09:51:27+00:00

Maybe go out during the day instead of the night, go home earlier, or don't drink.

hard9311 · 2022-01-15T12:38:18+00:00

I've been going out every day since the past week because I want to get good at this fast.

SCHODDE · 2022-01-15T09:24:23+00:00

My experience is if I am very tired but still force myself to go out and talk to people then I experience an shift in my mood. It does not come up if I don't talk to women tho.

Kedrith · 2022-01-15T14:37:31+00:00

I'm kind of an introvert and i go out every weekened; and i feel bad if i dont. Somebody said FOMO on the thread and i gotta admit it fits. I used to be a shutdown for a long part of my life, now if i could i would go out everyday, and i did this summer, met alot of people, made many friends and met interesting girls and this just in less than a year span. Age dont matter either, i'm 39 although people think i'm much younger when they see me.

Not everyday something interesting happens (girls interactions included) but when it does you get the kick that if you keep doing it more good stuff will come your way eventually.

IronManAlan · 2022-01-16T00:07:43+00:00

Man I feel you. I'm introverted so I don't go out drinking every weekend, I'm not that into alcohol tbh, but that doesn't mean you can't keep busy and do fun stuff every weekend. Plus I think having a hard week and not having the energy is ok sometimes, but certainly try to be getting enough sleep and keep fit that will help your energy levels

Plus you can still go out with friends who are drinking, just stick to non alcoholic beer if your not feeling like drinking that day, no one will even notice. That way you can still socialise, meet girls and you won't be hungover the next day

Title	Where do you find the energy to go out every weekend?
Author	FaithInStrangers94
Upvotes	11
Comments	14
Date	January 15, 2022 9:21 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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