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[–]CompetitionFair7686 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You are friendzoning yourself the moment you don’t want to reuní the friendship. To start something romantic/sexual with a girl requires to be willing to ruin the friendship on the process by not behaving like a platonic friend anymore, and instead acting more sexual to increase the sexual tension which is what makes girls desire a guy.
Without sexual tension there is no romance, and sexual tension is what usually ruins the friendship if not handled properly.
[–]dolphinjellyx 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I’m going to disagree. Have a conversation with her. Tell her how you feel. If you’re good enough friends, this shouldn’t hurt your relationship. If she likes you in that way, good for you. Otherwise you run the risk of creeping her out. That is a quick and easy way to end a friendship.
[–]confidence_man91 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Time limit ? If she isn’t attracted to you right when she meets you then she files you away under non-sexual friend. Value her as a friend and learn from her to help you with other girls. Get open and honest feed back from her. Learn from your female friends, it’s a priceless asset trust me. Having friends that are girls helped me with my game so much
[–]UrFavPlayerIsBack 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You get in it instantly. It literally takes seconds for her to see ball availability..
Ps: don’t try to test ma dude. You’ll blow it 101% Leave that chick for chads, they know how to smash
[–]confidence_man91 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Agreed
[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
No such thing as friendzone bro. Friendzone means the girl can’t see you in a sexual way cuz you aren’t sexy enough. (But you are nice and kind so there’s friendship)
If you’re handsome and start escalating…there will always be some attraction. Gotta be subtle though. Maybe start flirting and teasing. Being drunk can definitely help.
[–]Therocksays2020 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The friend zone definitely exist. But I agree there is no timeline for it.
[–]IGetBoredSometimes23 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
You already put yourself in the friend zone.
There's no time limit for it. Maybe she developed feelings for you, too.
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[–]IGetBoredSometimes23 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You chose to be her friend, buddy. That's all there is to it.
But like I said, there's no guarantee that you're not going to become romantic. She might have developed feelings for you as well. Go ahead and talk to her about it and see if she feels something, too
[–]Food-Able 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
The second a girl has an interaction with you she knows whether she wants to fuck you or not. yes you can change her mind over time but from personal and other experiences I’ve heard if your already in the friend zone you’re playing the long game the girl will eventually like but don’t expect it to happen in 2 days
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[–]Food-Able 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Some girls may prefer taller guys but being tall or not won’t get you out of the friend zone faster if she doesn’t find u “fuckable” it doesn’t matter how tall u are. heres a little tip tho for life in general.Even thought you are 5’6 walk around like your 6’2.have confidence. Height isn’t something you can change so you might as well embrace it.
[–]GhoulChaser 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You have two options either full out tell her and damage your friendship or hold it in and don’t damage your friendship. Girls are very attentive when it comes to things like that. So she may cut you off as a friend for letting her know that. The goal is not to tell her you like her but to build attraction so that she begins to like you more than a friend. DON’T try spending more time with her or talking to her everyday or asking her about her feelings. Slowly drift away from being a “friend” and when ever you guys do hang out in the future make the interaction as intimate as possible with out saying a word. Give her a nice hug where you grab her waist. Not butt. But waist and bring her close to you like if you guys were in a relationship already. Be more touchy with her. Bump into her hold hands. Yes friends hold hands. Try to get her to that point. Easiest way to get her to do that is if you guys are crossing the street. Put your hand out there and naturally the other person will grab it. You can listen to her but don’t give her advice. Make the conversation about you guys. If she ever brings up guy issues. Never follow up with it. Change the question immediately. Go out on “dates” with her. It can be lunch and dinner. If you’d like the movies so that you can have her lay on you. As you build all that up you’re going to have to kiss her at some point of all that build up. That kiss will at the very least take you out of the friend zone. It may not get you in her pants but depending on how she feels about all her interactions with you.. they will have her more emotionally invested in you and that’s what you want.
[–]Visualize_ 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You have to put the friendship on the line, there is no going around it. She might have friend zoned you already but test the waters and start flirting with her and see how she responds. If she is receptive then step up the flirting a bit more and then ask her out. Alternatively you could just be upfront immediately and ask her on a date and if you guys were actually good friends, it wouldn't actually nuke the relationship if she said no.
[–]TheTruth221 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
can take between an hour to a few days
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