Is it a good idea to ask not to waste your time in the online bio of a dating app?

UnderTheSettingSun · 2021-12-14T15:13:52+00:00

A lot of unattractive women have that in their bios. Because I assume they are going through the same thing, they get a match but then the guy isn't serious because he is looking for something better. It doesn't help their case.

Like in dating, you are looking for someone to add to your life to make it better. If they are butthurt from the get go, you have to assume you can do better, at least on Tinder where there are too many people so there are no point in going for the ones that don't seem that much fun

Canadian-Seductioner · 2021-12-14T15:18:14+00:00

So I'm wondering if it is a good idea to just plainly say "Hey, don't fucking waste my time if you're just a bored and boring gal looking for the attention".

This is the worst possible idea. Don't do it. It gives off such low-value energy because it looks like you're boring AF and bitter about girls ghosting you as a result.

As of right now my bio goes kinda like this (although it's in Italian): "I don't like talking about myself that much. Looking for another film fanatic that I can talk with and laugh" with a couple emoji (a clapperboard and a UK flag) and my height to end it.

Remove the first line, makes you look insecure. Second line is fine. Emojis - whatever. Height - good.

I was thinking of adding something along the lines of "if you're going to waste my time swipe left" or "Nothing casual, don't have the time". Does that make me sound too aggressive or entitled? Would it be a better idea to just restructure my entire bio from the start and state that I want to ACTUALLY meet new people?

Again, don't do it. I do think it would be a better idea to restructure it from the start, but not to state that you "actually want to meet people". You're taking the apps too seriously. Take a look at my last post if you want some advice on how to write a good bio for them.

Jenrah84 · 2021-12-14T14:04:49+00:00

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WeakEmu8 · 2021-12-14T14:40:23+00:00

That you even ask should tell you all you need to know.

CompetitionFair7686 · 2021-12-14T20:42:59+00:00

Unfortunately, girls don’t wanna go out with an stranger. Not talking about yourself means you are an stranger.

Why? Because it’s dangerous for them. Why on earth would a girl risk going out with an online guy they barely share a word? What if he is a rapist? or a sexual harasser? or a murderer? or a creep?

You might think that’s exaggerating but women do really fear about that, they know damn well that there are creepy guys out there they need to be careful with. Plus they also need to worry about cat fishing.

Unfortunately for you, yes you have to talk and get to know each other before going out. If you don’t like that, then online dating isn’t for you.

Title	Is it a good idea to ask not to waste your time in the online bio of a dating app?
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Date	December 14, 2021 1:36 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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