Hot Cold Method

Mriconicdev · 2021-12-08T15:27:48+00:00

I’m not condoning any of this I’m writing but simply explaining a few examples just to add some good responses.

One example would be, Going out on a great amazing date with her but then being very short or slow in response times directly after for a couple days.

Another one, complimenting her/validating and letting her acknowledge your validation plus respond then ghosting for a few days.

Having an amazing date then getting her back to your place, making her cum first then as soon as she cums just put your pants on and lay down, not receiving any pleasure just completely changing subjects after she’s had an amazing orgasm. I actually lied I am condoning this particular one because wow does it make most girls go crazy in the best way possible lol.

willgo-waggins · 2021-12-08T18:32:40+00:00

When you’ve had it done to you in an extreme fashion it’s called manipulation and it’s shitty behavior.

I only do this very mildly to maintain personal value. I don’t like it and it often will backfire in a world of very short attention spans.

froze_gold · 2021-12-08T18:57:35+00:00

IME it should be a standard approach for dating. Too much comfort and validation and you get two things: A girl hungry for a relationship with you to the point of anger at negligence, or they ghost because the excitement is dead. Let's be real, they want to miss you. All those emotions we make them bottle up just explode with passion at the right time.

FatimaAscencio · 2021-12-08T16:28:25+00:00

Just saying doing that is awful lol

random_af_guy · 2021-12-09T04:43:43+00:00

It's certainly manipulative. It works on the emotionally unstable women. The ones that came from broken families and or have mental issues.

I don't like the strategy, but I do something similar that's more honest. In fact, I do it with everyone in my life. Both friends and family.

I match their energy 100%. If they are complimenting me, I do the same. If they are ghosting me, I do the same. If they are buying me gifts, I do the same.

At first I might get the ball rolling, or restart it, if it's gone cold. However, I am very careful that I do not give anyone any more effort than they give me.

That's an honest approach to push pull.

OkRun9844 · 2021-12-08T23:43:05+00:00

For those who use this in texting, please give some examples

fentonmalton · 2021-12-09T03:53:20+00:00

This might not work with some girls..Source ..a female.. If I sensed this game being played on me, I assumed there was no interest on his part and just moved on..I am very straightforward and expect everyone to be lol..

Title	Hot Cold Method
Author	OkRun9844
Upvotes	15
Comments	14
Date	December 8, 2021 3:14 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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