What's your opinion on social media like instagram?

MasterTeacher123 · 2021-12-02T12:56:48+00:00

Alot of women use social media to verify if you’re a loser or not. They want to see if you have a popping social life, go places, and probably most importantly do women look comfortable around you.

Canadian-Seductioner · 2021-12-02T13:24:41+00:00

Yeah, IG is an extremely useful tool when it comes to game. Girls will use it to reassure themselves that you're worth meeting up with because it has photos of you and is an indicator of your social proof. I rarely get flaked on when I get a girl's IG instead of her number.

norwegiandoggo · 2021-12-02T12:05:37+00:00

With every social media it comes down to how you use it.

Instagram can be super effective for picking up women, also for sliding in DMs. But it takes a lot of work and if you're not handsome or not able to get a large following, too bad, it likely won't work for you.

No_Way2496 · 2021-12-02T21:10:30+00:00

Yep IG is a very good tool.

Sliding in DM’s which is not possible in Tinder.

You can demonstrate higher value > Photos, stories, followers = Social Proof.

If you have 10k followers easier to slide in DM, in Tinder this is not possible.

Also you can be less needy. When you get a number and text her is more investment, with IG you can just react to a story and start conversation so less pressure.

This is extremely usefull. if you haven’t spoke to her in a while.

Easier to ask for IG/ Snapchat than number. Eg you are at a party say you will send pics or tag her in story and book you have her contact.

Also you can reconnect with people. Eg a girl comments on a photo of your friend you also comment on that photo and then follow her.

Also girls will like your photos and react to your stories so easy easy to start conversation.

Imaginary-Chipmunk35 · 2021-12-02T17:45:08+00:00

Idk, I really don’t like of instagram, for me that is toxic

PapaNarb · 2021-12-02T21:35:09+00:00

I find it to be the most efficient way to communicate and engage with a broad audience.

This is not just women, but friends and family.

I post a broad mix of whatever interests me (mainly through stories). I’m able to gauge interest by who watches them regularly and often I’ll get an unprompted DM as well.

IG is a low effort way of demonstrating high value, engaging with my friends and keeping up with what’s going on in the world.

You can also slide into women’s DMs as well but I tend not to go overboard as they are bombarded by attention on these platforms.

I mainly like doing it for myself as a way to chronicle my life, so I can look back on my memories.

plaaya · 2021-12-03T00:54:07+00:00

Instagram is for them so they can feel validated

CompetitionFair7686 · 2021-12-03T17:34:28+00:00

Yes, it’s like your identity on the internet. Basically all your perceived worth is based on the number of followers, how cool you look in the photos, the quality of those photos, the outfits, and the personality you convey in your stories/reels. You can leverage it to have more success with girls.

Therocksays2020 · 2021-12-02T11:05:02+00:00

I used it to show myself as high value. Doing fun stuff. Nice restaurants. Around women and men .

But no you shouldn’t be sliding in dms.

salamanderkwan · 2021-12-02T23:56:51+00:00

Incredibly helpful tool for me. I rap and perform and post my music on IG, random girls who see me from being tagged in other people’s stories or show up at events I would be rapping or performing in would follow me. Also been to a few cool places

External_Lifeguard49 · 2021-12-02T13:50:22+00:00

Waste of time. Also mainly for people who seek validation.

Leviathansplunge · 2021-12-02T17:04:26+00:00

I personally don't rely on social media to connect with the opposite sex. I might be old fashioned but some women still like being approached by a confident man in person. The internet started off as an open info source that was a useful tool for socializing, now big tech controls everything about it and takes advantage of human nature for marketing purposes, now everything is so hyper connected that people live on the internets definition of reality and not actual reality. Ghosting is now normalized, which never would have happened if social media didn't exist. Never once got ghosted or disrespected in a bad way by anybody I met offline.

Title	What's your opinion on social media like instagram?
Author	newmanstartover
Upvotes	10
Comments	16
Date	December 2, 2021 11:01 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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