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sigs_of_sums · 2021-11-29T03:30:16+00:00

Man you sound exactly like me haha, I'm 22, just got out a 4 year relationship ab 2 months ago. Prior to my breakup my lay count was 2. It was with that GF I just mentioned, and my first ever GF I had in highschool before that. And just like you there were a few others I fooled around with in between but just never lead to full on sex.

Well 2 months after my breakup my lay count is now 5. And well tbh, having ONS is really not all it's chalked up to be. I was VERY insecure about how I've never had one before and I wanted to be a stud and go out and fuck everything. And well once I started to do just that I found that it's not all it's chalked up to be. It would leave me feeling empty and shallow afterwards and kinda scummy bc I would basically just ghost the girls after bc I had no other intentions than just getting my number up.

HOWEVER, I think you should still do it.

Bc you need to see for yourself that the grass isn't all that much greener on the other side, and then you can stop worrying about it and start to move on w your life.

What you're going through is all very fresh to me so ama if you want.

Best

nupollution · 2021-11-29T02:50:19+00:00

You’re still so young! Don’t put so much thought into it. Personally, I like to fuck on a first date, but that doesn’t necessarily mean there will be a second one lol. You’ll likely end up with a good handful of “one night stands” without meaning to. Just have fun and be safe!

rustoof · 2021-11-29T01:48:14+00:00

No one really wants a one night stand. Even if you don't want a relationship for whatever reason, usually you would like to have a fwb kind of situation. But a lot of times you only do it the one night because one of the parties did not enjoy it or logistics mean it can only be a 1 time thing, i.e. one of the participants is on vacation, or gets back together with their ex the next day.

I can't recommend seeking out one night stands. They're more just things that naturally happen if you're properly escalating, creating insta-dates, and talking to lots of potential partners.

Senpai-fish · 2021-11-29T04:03:56+00:00

Damn, he's 20 with 2 body counts, ur 22 with 5 body counts Shit, i turn 21 in 3days with 1 body count, and u know what they always say "the first one don't count"

RSDTommy · 2021-11-29T06:54:30+00:00

Bro just make sure to steer clear of black girls. They only offer men the pu**y and nothing else. Their entire value is based on how loud and “turnt” they get in the clubs

NateHate1402 · 2021-11-29T13:51:41+00:00

I see no problem with what you’ve been doing. You don’t need to do hookups and the fact is you probably could if you tried. But to try means to risk failure.

2021-12-01T09:10:34+00:00

Don’t stress man, I was 20 with a body count of 2 (closer to 1.5 don’t ask) at 23 I was near 20 in my body count. Literally nothin changed except and I was still insecure and needed female validation to be a prideful man.

It doesn’t matter, one night stand sex sucks 99% of the time. The ego boost is nice but that shit doesn’t pay your bills or make you healthy or gets you a better perspective on life. Just focus on improving yourself, sex is nothing in the grand scheme unless you’re trying to have kids.

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