How to text a girl after the club?

Elbynerual · 2021-11-29T01:41:12+00:00

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rewinder909 · 2021-11-28T18:15:04+00:00

"Hey I had fun last night you seemed like a interesting person, I want to get to know you better" Then say like I know a cool activity/bar/museum something you can share an experience with her. Do you want to join me? Make it casual don't ask her or beg = needy If she doesn't accept I'm sorry to say but it mostly isn't going anywhere. If she flakes, try again, if she flakes again delete.

JXphile4 · 2021-11-28T15:38:38+00:00

Unfortunately, the chances of you seeing her again are slim. She has thousands of dm’s on Instagram.

You have to get their number before leaving the club. Unless you have a blue check on IG, you need to get their phone number and get the date going thru there.

Instagram is a dating app. A phone number puts us men at a huge advantage over those guys in the dms. Especially since you made out with her bro. A number is more personal in her mind which means you’re closer to her than a guy in her dms

Sikcw · 2021-11-28T16:07:50+00:00

I agree with “JX” but I’d add this exception to the rule in your situation.

Did she kiss you or did you kiss her? Meaning, who’s the one making the move here? If she initiated the kiss, she would’ve kissed anybody(she’s horny) but if you kissed her and she let you, you might have a little more real estate in her mind because she’s not letting any guy just kiss her(you made her horny)

Be honest! Judging by your question you didn’t make the move which makes you less memorable

Cookiedoe_11 · 2021-11-28T19:57:28+00:00

Most club numbers go nowhere

nupollution · 2021-11-28T21:14:11+00:00

“It was great meeting you. How was the rest of your weekend?” Go from there

2021-11-28T21:18:21+00:00

Why exchange social media instead of phone numbers? Now you're in her endless orbit of male "fans". She was probably just collecting followers & male attention.

Next time, phone number or nothing.

2021-11-28T23:23:34+00:00

Clubs are more, "in the moment" situation

They are infamous for "one night stands"

If you achieve a one night stand, if the sex was good, you go and get breakfast with her the next day and get to know each other then. I know it's backwards, but at a club, girls are usually drunk and are looking for a good time.

They will more then likely remember the guy they had sex with rather then the guy who texts her "hey Kate, remember me?"

Title	How to text a girl after the club?
Author	Simpleplan3030
Upvotes	4
Comments	10
Date	November 28, 2021 3:25 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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