No second dates

CompetitionFair7686 · 2021-10-24T10:26:01+00:00

2 hours is long without a kiss attempt somewhere through out that date.

If you have no goal that’s a problem, there needs to be a goal otherwise without goal the date leads to nowhere.

Answering questions appropriately is an opinion you have which might be the wrong opinion, so what are the questions she asks and what are your answers.

Wanting something serious is ok as long as you first kiss and have sex first in a non serious way until it becomes serious.

Texting “great time” kills the mystery as you make it clear how you feel about it and girls tend to go with guys that are a bit more mysterious about how they feel. They want to guess and overthink about where they stand with you, specially after a first date, if you just say it plain and clear the mystery is gone, and that’s boring, meaning attraction doesn’t happen.

Also “great time” for a guy usually means average time for a girl. And average time for a guy usually means shit time for a girl. My point is, that girls need to feel they are on the same page as you are, so you need to tone down the excitement and act more like it was no big deal the date rather than saying “it was amazing or great”.

Like, fuck… How can you say a date is amazing or great if you didn’t have amazing sex with her in the first place??… Anyway.

Texts should be playful, not factual, predictable and objective. You seem very logical in your texts. Like no emotion, like you don’t say anything funny, like an inside joke.

It seems like you are very: “hey had a great time, hey wanna meet out again?, hey what time is it, hey how much is 2 + 5?, how was your day? I just had dinner”

Know what i am saying? like way too boring and logical. No humour, no playfulness, no coquetry, no flirting, no teasing, no joking, nothing all you texts is logical and boring.

GOD_McGee · 2021-10-24T08:19:07+00:00

Are you male/female?

IGetBoredSometimes23 · 2021-10-24T08:27:51+00:00

You're not giving much details to go on. Can you tell us more about these dates?

ORIONFULL23 · 2021-10-24T08:40:17+00:00

How long do your dates usually last? Whats your 'goal' for the first date? Are you telling your dates everything about yourself or you keep the mistery on? After the date how much are you texting? When do you ask for a second date?

JacobMoogberg69 · 2021-10-24T10:06:22+00:00

You need to turn up your sexual energy. If you are being called sweet and hold hands they see you as boring boyfriend material. Not exciting, not someone who represents good, raunchy sex. Imagine you are a 19 year old girl with your hormones raging and your dad telling you to not to do this or that and don't have sex and stay away from bad boys. All she wants is that which she is forbidden.

1990MeWuzBorn · 2021-10-24T13:39:46+00:00

Dating’s a numbers game.

Title	No second dates
Author	theyuta
Upvotes	1
Comments	15
Date	October 24, 2021 7:26 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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