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CompetitionFair7686 · 2021-10-22T16:56:45+00:00

Full conversation (number close) with a girl outside the gym

I show you this conversation I had the other day with a girl from the gym that i got laid with I manage to write down the combo on my phone while it was fresh on my mind (in spain, so i’ll translate) Was flirting in person at the door of the gym to get her number. Hope it’s inspiring for you.

Hey, look, I have to tell you one thing, I've seen you and your style has struck me when you walk so elegant. And I was intrigued to meet you for that. I'm ernes, by the way.
oh wow, that’s unexpected … thanks though haha, I’m Ainhoa! delighted I guess
- You look like you are new to doing sports, is this your first time?
- (Her, with a face like what!??? (she obviously works out a lot as her body shows, im just teasing her)
- I'm kidding, I just wanted to see your reaction
- Such a bastard you are
- Thank you, you are not so bad yourself neither
- Yeah, you say that now to fix it
- Maybe and apart from moving your ass up and down, what do you do?
- Well, I'm a nursing student and you?
- Web designer
- Oh so cool!
- So you were one of those who on Halloween already dressed as a sexy nurse to practice?
- In fact once I dressed up like that yes 😆
- You should put it on your job resume, it really adds value
- haha That's what I think too!
- So I see that your thing is to take care of others or what motivates you to be a nurse? A better world?
- Well, I do like taking care of people, and I always liked playing nurse when I was little.
- Well you're still very very small
- But now I'm a woman
- A woman? I hadn’t noticed
- She hits me on the shoulder
- I love the face you put when i tease you.
- You are very good at this
- Good at what?
- Flirting
- I can feel that you are liking it
- I mean I admit that it is very original and very brave that you talk to me like that on the street like nothing. I would not dare.
- How nice that you give me so many compliments and even admit that you like how I flirt with you
- You do this with other girls or what?
- I may have done it with some, but not all of them make me feel what I feel right now because of you. Like My heart doesn't stop.
- what do you mean your heart doesn't stop.
- It’s going like "bum bum bum" while I talk to you, I'm afraid that it will come out, look touch it (I grab her hand, I bring it to my chest)
- (Touches) It is true haha, am I causing it?
- Certainly my heart was calmer a while ago, I'm going to have to ask you for the phone number to see you again
- Well, take it.
- Let's see, tell me and I will make you a miss called
- It is xxxxxxxxx
- (I call and hang up)
- When I write to you, it is to see you again, because I like how you make me feel like this when we are in person.
- Yes, whenever you want
- And if I get sick or whatever, I know where to call
- haha, I would love to take care of you
- How nice of you to tell me that, if you continue like this you will make me fall in love
- Hahaha, don't go so fast
- It's your fault! you tell me so many cool things about yourself that my heart goes crazy
- How sweet you are, call me okay?
- If you insist, nah kidding of course i will (give her two kisses on the cheek)
- Bye
- Bye

GuaranteeOwn5108 · 2021-10-22T06:07:35+00:00

I just walk up to women I think look really good and say Hey… you look really good, then I’ll tell her what I like about her… but in a way that’s cool, like it’s a fact, like telling somebody the sky is blue…. it’s whatever. If something about her really catches my eye like a she’s wearing a vintage piece of clothing I’ll open by telling her she looks good in it. I just let her know upfront that I find her attractive, then I talk, flirt and have fun. It seems to change the tone of the conversation when she’s fully aware of my intentions.

I don’t drink anymore so I don’t do bars and clubs besides I’ve had way more success inside a whole foods than I ever had at the clubs.

Daunt02 · 2021-10-22T06:46:49+00:00

I don't do day game so I can't comment on that. I usually generate a good vibe from enjoying my life then I just vibe with whoever is around me, mail or female. Usually people have friends and things end up being fun but cold approaching with the intent to holler at women is a thing I gave up a while. I feel like I haven't "cold approached " in years because when I'm feeling good usually people end up talking to me or I say something fun (it literally doesn't matter. I say the "wrong" thing regularly) with the people around me. This usually ends up in me talking with groups of people and becoming integrated with their friend group.

Going solo and thinking that you have to get something takes you away from a lot of amazing experiences. A lot of times I end up with women from another woman that I talk to. So in the grand scheme of things it doesn't matter what you say. It's a vibe.

I literally opened with, "so... do you like chips" in a gas station and we ended up dating for a few weeks. Generate a vibe. Words do not matter.

AelfredRex · 2021-10-22T13:05:14+00:00

There's no confidence in running around hitting on every woman in sight. That's the very definition of desperation.

The truly confident know the women will come to them. They just chill and enjoy the scenery.

CenaSmackDown · 2021-10-22T07:16:30+00:00

I used to have a couple pickup lines memorized and just tried to sarge her into bed, but this latest book written by dating coaches suggests just try and say "hi" or "how are you" and be natural.

effreek · 2021-10-22T08:48:53+00:00

I mainly only approach in bars and stuff.

Anyway, your method is fine. All methods are just a variation of what you've outlined really (say hi, chat a bit, see if there's interest, flirt, escalating, close).

And that's fine and assuming you open a girl who is into you, it'll get you results

If you're not her type, then it's usually fairly obvious and there's nothing you can say or do to change her mind. You see this if you watch coaches infields. They also never ever sleep with the girls who weren't into them. That's why it's just a numbers game.

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