Hello there my pimp comrades.

Let's face it guys, nothing makes a man more sweaty and frustrated than the texting process during seduction. It's the only part of the game that has very limited communication with the least amount of direct feedback.

This leaves guys scratching their heads as they try to figure out the formula to what's the right text to send at any given situation, how long should it be, should you include caps or emojis or neither etc.

While I am a believer in good text-game and have spent a lot of time studying it, I eventually came to the conclusion that it's more beneficial to use that energy on having a solid interaction with a woman rather than developing Master level texting.

Over the years I developed the following pickup guidelines to ensure that my texting can be as minimal as "Hey, let's meet at 8 o'clock this Friday."

I share them with you.

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1) Have a MINIMUM of 5-10 minute conversation

I don't think I need to elaborate on this, but if you want a girl to feel safe and comfortable to show up on a date with you, you have to spend time getting to know her, expressing your personality and creating a real emotional connection with her. Do quick numbers get you results sometimes? Yes, but there's also a 1 in a 13 million of a chance that you will win the lottery some day. Do you want to bet your life on that?

2) Bait the girl to qualify herself to you in some capacity

This is another important point. For a woman to feel intrigue for you, her emotions need to be engaged and if you're too easy and too predictable, then you're boring. At some point during your interaction you need to indicate to the woman that you might be losing interest in her or that she might not be what you are looking for. It could be that she's too young, she's not adventurous or creative enough, maybe you only like girls that are spiritual. In other words: Disqualify her. And when you do that, she has to try to prove you wrong or qualify herself to you in some way. Even her getting flustered and trying to rebuilt rapport with you counts.

If she doesn't, it's a really bad sign, brother.

3) Inspire her to verbally acknowledge her attraction to you

Anyone can create momentary attraction in people. Just get them to laugh a couple of times, play a little hard to get and boom, you're in. But what takes a bit more finesse, is creating lasting attraction. One way of achieving that is by getting the girl to make decisions in your favor which she'll have to backwards rationalize that she did them because she likes you.

The most powerful of ways is when the girl compliments you, asks you join her for something, asks you out, asks for your number, tells you that she enjoys talking to you etc.

How can you proactively create such scenarios? You can use statements of empathy like "Hey, don't let me interrupt you by the way, you can go if you're busy" which she'll respond with "No, it's okay we can talk" if she likes you. Another way is asking her questions which has her comparing you to other guys such as "Do you get approached often?" or "Do you always talk to guys on the street like this?" or "What did you think of me at first when I approached you? How do you feel now?" Final way is by teasing the girl that she's superficial and only likes you because you're black, or tall, or your fashion or whatever and then having her correct you by verbalizing specific personality traits that she likes in you.

Tread carefully though. If you do too much, she'll see right through you and you'll come across as an insecure guy fishing for compliments.

4) Verbally agree on future plans

This goes without saying. Don't just ask for her number for no fucking reason. Make sure to find out what you two have in common and make specific plans to do that. Maybe you both like wine, or she's interested in checking out a place that you love to frequent, or maybe she'll teach you how to twerk. Whatever it is make sure that you're both excited about it. The more solid the plan the better, so if you can get her availability and achieve a specific date and time then go for it. But at the very least, agree on some activity that you're both into.

5) Exchange numbers

Don't be a random number in her phone. Make sure you're both saved in each other's contacts and you're texting under the pretense that you like you each other and want to meet up.

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The more of these you achieve the easier your texting will be. Leave your thoughts below.