"what should I say","how to behave", "how to get on a date"...

Those are commons questions that need to stop being asked.

You guys have to keep in mind that :

1) You CANNOT get any girls you want... If you get rejected, that's because you weren't made for eachother. Make it become an ADVANTAGE for you.

2) The more you chase, the less you pull : neediness is the less attractive trait a man can have...

I'm not saying that you have to fake non-neediness,

you have to BE non-needy.

3) No pickup lines "works" : A girl isn't falling for your lines. A girl is falling for

EMOTIONS you make her feel. Yes, through pickup lines you will feel confident and that will attract her, but she will quickly notice that this isn't the real you. BE confident.

4) Seduction isn't about game. Seduction is about feelings. (except for some cases)

5) Be HONEST and VULNERABLE.

Tell her she looks awesome with that dress : this shows more non-neediness than if you kept your emotions for yourself.

Accept your choices and sexuality. Being vulnerable is being non-needy because you express your own FEELINGS.

To finish this post,

Love yourself, and don't seek validation from others.

PS : Being in a "performance" mindset isn't having an "abundance" mindset...