tl;dr:

  • 3h30
  • didn't count the approaches, probably between 10 and 15 including the instant fails (ironically following the London Daygame Model)
  • 3 numbers

Logistics

Went out with a wing. Different city so no possibility to pull. The goal wasn't as much to spam approaches but to chill and have fun. Bars as location with dancing not allowed. Used LDM as I didn't know any better.

Number one

Street approach. Very brief conversation. Almost run through all the LDM steps and went for the number. For some reason, possibly because the wing was waiting for me, I was very nervous, my hands were almost shaking while handling over the phone.

Number two

About 5 minutes long in front of a bar situation. Found some commonalities. The vibe was good and there was some kino. Possibly not enough flirting and teasing. The most promising one.

Number three

She was 5-10 years older and very tipsy. She closed the distance to literally 1-2 feet. Was quite touchy. I was honestly a bit terrified and didn't know how to reciprocate. The whole situation looked like she wanted to kiss me right then and there. Was about to leave to another city. I went for her number but immediately after I realized I should have likely gone all in. Take her on an instant date or consider emergency pulling in a public place.

Mistakes

  • incorrect winging
    • I tend to miscommunicate with the wing about our target selection
    • My vibe tends to mismatch my wing's vibe
  • not opening multiple girls sets
    • I'm just afraid as I don't know how to steer the whole conversation
  • night vision of peace
    • looking for eyecontact is impossible as I just don't see clearly from the distance without glasses
      • should possibly consider lenses
    • stopped few approaches upon opening when I got a clear look of the face
      • definitely lenses
  • logistics
    • no explanation needed
  • planning / strategy
    • zero proper preparation / strategy

Final thoughts

The numbers came much easier than during the day. We'll see what's the flake rate compared to the daygame.

On the other hand I'm almost just as blank about nightgame now as before the session. It was the wing's more or less first nightgame session as well.

Next time I should likely finish the session as soon as I lost the vibe and interest in further approaching. This session only made me more convinced that nightgame is not for me at this stage of my life.