So for most of my life I have been in love with this one girl. She is has also been a close friend to me my whole life and both our families are friends. She knows how much I like her, but she is obsessed with this other friend of mine who does not like her as much as me, and who she is on and off with all her life basically.

To make a long ass story short. I cannot get over this girl and I think it is driving me nuts. She is single right now and last time I told her how I felt to leave my feelings in the open, it did NOT go well. Everything constantly makes me think of her and I cannot take it anymore. It is starting to affect the alount of girls I casually hook up with. I focus on myself a lot by working out and such but it does not help. How do you get over a girl when you are reminded about your love for her at every corner?