If only i would know how to keep a frame, i would get my ex back

Ducharbaine · 2021-08-19T19:14:00+00:00

Ugh.. You're destroying yourself by thinking like this.

quantumactual · 2021-08-19T17:18:20+00:00

Then stop being a bitch..lol. I have my ex wrapped around my finger still because I stopped caring. We love each other yes, but there’s no way I’d retain a relationship like this if I was blowing her up constantly, texting her and asking how her day was, or anything. That’s for her beta simp orbiters. I’m the one she calls when she needs some dick.

boycott-mondays · 2021-08-19T16:59:59+00:00

Nope, if she was out of your league, you wouldn't be able to date her, but she found you attractive, which means

TA DA. you're now in her league. Congratulations man, you're attractive.

The self doubt you are doing right now, is very unattractive. Get back out there man.

I've dated so many girls that were out of my league, that I just accepted that maybe they are all in my league

jamaljonas · 2021-08-19T12:49:48+00:00

Uh. Idk man believe in yourself? Maybe get a gym membership if it’s that important. No hate when I say that, but if you have your answer then move accordingly.

2021-08-19T13:35:43+00:00

It's not chance. You got it. My last relationship I was so stoked that I pulled a girl like her that I totally quit my frame and stepped into hers. Honestly she didn't bring much but toxic friends and kids to the table. Turns out, I bring a ton to the table and have now proven to myself that I should keep my standards up. You'll get through it, just learn how to handle yourself better and stay in your frame

BeASimpleWinner · 2021-08-19T13:47:19+00:00

I used to believe similar things to this. First time I got a girlfriend "out of my league" I thought it'd never happen again because I just got lucky.

But 1) you can always keep improving yourself and 2) you can get lucky again. It's not like you used up all your luck.

It took a while, but I was eventually able to find another girlfriend "out of my league" multiple times. It just takes time, patience, and constantly improving yourself bit by bit.

ORIONFULL23 · 2021-08-19T14:31:18+00:00

Na my dude if she were really out of your league, you wouldn't stand a chance! But by acting like that you're putting her on a pedestal change that mindset

Title	If only i would know how to keep a frame, i would get my ex back
Author	lolothe2nd
Upvotes	0
Comments	7
Date	August 19, 2021 12:32 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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