You should not fear or become aggravated when a woman tests you in an initial interaction. Being tested is a sign that a woman has some interest in you. If she was not interested in you at all, she would simply just dismiss you or make polite conversation. Instead, she is trying to verify in an accelerated manner that the person she just met is the cool, confident and congruent person that he appears to be. To pass these tests, you only need to recognize that you are being tested and not have it affect your demeanor. Your best action may even be to ignore her remarks or questions altogether. You should not feel the need to prove or qualify yourself to a woman that you just met. Later on, when you have developed greater self-confidence and abundance, you will become unresponsive to congruence tests as a result of literally just not caring.

Here are common congruence tests that women give along with some potential answers.

Common Congruence Tests

Test: The woman stares into your eyes to see if you can comfortably hold eye contact.

Answer: Comfortably hold eye contact.

Test: She brings up a sexual topic and looks to see if it makes you uncomfortable.

Answer: Speak about the topic with confidence and do not immediately shy away from it.

Test: Compares you to another man saying: “I think the waiter is cute.”

Answer: Do not appear jealous, and perhaps even agree with her.

Test: Introduces you to her guy friend who is physically superior to you.

Answer: Do not appear intimidated, and joke with him about the girl. “How can you be in public with this girl. Haha.”

Test: Points out one of your short comings.

Answer: Do not become defensive. Re-frame it as a strength or laugh about it. Show that you fully embrace all of who you are and that her opinion does not concern you.

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