How often do you see your plates?

Blackhawk2479 · 2018-04-13T20:53:49+00:00

First up, if you only have one girl then you aren’t spinning plates.

Secondly, the frequency at which you see them is based on your other plates and how you choose to split your time between them.

The better plates get the benefit of your company more often, the lesser plates, less often.

Zanford · 2018-04-13T22:47:50+00:00

Whatever you want. That's the point.

You can see a plate several nights in a row, as long as your attitude is right, it won't seem needy. Especially if you make her feel that she's 'earned' it, like if she cooks you breakfast on a weekend morning and you hang around for more Netflix'n'fuck or whatever you want.

A tactic I always liked was to let a girl tag a long on errands I was gonna do anyway - it establishes a man on a mission / gonna do what I want and need to frame, and it also lets her play up her own mental fantasies of eventually havin some of domestic thing where ya'll go shopping and shit.

Rollo_Mayhem3 · 2018-04-13T21:17:58+00:00

it all depends on the assessment of the plate and the reference point you left them with. If you f--ked there brains out the first time, you are fairly solid for a good two weeks with no contact. I would shoot a random text every week or so in the beginning. There should be some give and take, meaning that she should contact you at some point during those silent periods, if you are checking. Some plates you can just not contact and they will eventually contact you. The key is not to care if they contact you or not and if they ignore you are not...you just have to develop a large rotation of say 5 plates that can pinch hit when you need a batter...

R41nmaker · 2018-04-13T21:01:35+00:00

The fact that you’re asking means that you’re not spinning plates. You get to see your plate as often as YOU want. If she doesn’t like it, she (the plate) falls off and breaks. You sweep it up, put in the trash and spin a new plate.

SocialJusticeWhiner · 2018-04-14T04:06:21+00:00

Black Dragon's blog covers this throughly.

Morphs_ · 2018-04-14T07:57:45+00:00

Once a week to once a month, depending.

Right now im trying to spin too many plates. I like a challenge I guess. Out of the 6 I see 2-3 almost weekly/biweekly and the rest depending on schedule. One lives further away so I won't see her often.

In the past I had trouble with spinning just 2, but I guess being busy with work makes it easier to schedule less often. This lifestyle definitely isn't all glory, it is exhausting at times. But in a good way :)

fortuitousmonk · 2018-04-14T02:19:57+00:00

I'm not really a multiple plate guy myself (more for safety + health reasons). However, 3 days to 2 weeks sounds pretty good.

A lot of women know well the excuse of business travel.

Personally, I think there's a timescale you're fighting against here. Even in ancient times when people slaughtered animals for ceremonies (like the Middle East still does I suppose), even if you had a "harem" or equivalent, you'd still need to pay lip service to whoever you were trying to be with. Anything less and you're kind of just being a horrible person.

Buy the woman a drink at least, take her to a movie, do something that requires effort. Are you a lazy piece of shit in life? Just because you do something nice for a woman doesn't mean you're a limp-dicked beta.

Title	How often do you see your plates?
Author	rad_dynamic
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Date	April 13, 2018 8:41 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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