Are you still in the game after you got married?

Agreable_Actuator84 · 2021-07-30T14:45:41+00:00

Yes, it’s like working out. If you get fit and when some athletic competition, that is great but you can lose all your gains if you don’t continue to work out. For most, it’s gaming your wife by remaining fit, staying well dressed and groomed, being a leader and generally taking care of your life and achieve life goals, as well as aggressively pursuing physical affection with your partner.

You also may ‘social flirt’with her friends and family; and maybe even friends wives. by socially flirt I mean say something nice in a flirty way but that also doesn’t have a creepy vibe to it. I mean you aren’t really going to try and fuck your mother in law.

You have to be really socially calibrated to do this and some men never get the hang of it. But for those who do they are loved by all. If their spouse were to wonder if they should leave, a dozen women would tell her ‘ girl, he is the best you gonna get. You leave him this morning, he will have three in his bed tonight! Sit your ass down, have a drink, then go give him a blowie like he deserve before some other women slurp that knob.’

Some guys take it a bit further. I know a guy, marine, in love with his wife, don’t think he cheats, but when we are out and about he chats up every attractive girl he sees. He could easily get a ONS but I never see him ask fir a number but several have offered. He usually throws it in trash. Can you be that guy? I don’t know.

Women want a guy who can cheat, but chooses not to. Keep your tools sharp and cared for abs they will be there when you need them.

loofyd · 2021-07-30T14:15:27+00:00

Would be similar to how married women flirt with other men for 'fun'

AelfredRex · 2021-07-30T23:39:28+00:00

Flirting still goes on. Women will give you the eye and hit on you when the wife's not around.

TheSunshineMan · 2021-07-31T01:42:34+00:00

You still need to be a man, otherwise she'll lose respect for you, get bored, and either cheat or leave you and your marriage will end.

IGetBoredSometimes23 · 2021-07-31T07:04:57+00:00

I'm in an ethical non-monogamous marriage.

I have the benefit of being less scared of rejection because my wife still loves me and is always dtf, lol. It takes a lot of trust and reassurance to do this and that's something my wife and I have to work on constantly.

Title	Are you still in the game after you got married?
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Date	July 30, 2021 2:02 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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