Just going where I need and approaching an attractive girl if she crosses my way.

  • 2 approaches
  • 1 number
  • 2 approaches unattempt (I'm such a pussssssss)

First girl

Possibly about 5 years older than me. Was very surprised since approaching is very unusual in the area. Seemed to like the convo a lot. Some BS boyfriend excuse. I had likely cut it off to quick since she kept looking in my direction when I was leaving and thanked me for the interaction.

Second girl

The second approach was a bity hazy since I changed my target literally twice in one second. First girl, a 6-7 or so, kind of dodges me while I'm getting very close. I already have the intent to approach so I literally chose the next girl I see. But this one seems to have some religious piece of clothing on her, I can't see clearly without glasses.

The third girl must be it. 0 seconds of hesitation. Quite calm convo, some basic questions but also a quick transition to some more situational and personal talk. I'm too slow to come up with an idea for a date so I tell her to give me her number with an open mind. It works.

During the whole convo I realize the girl with a religious hat has no hat at all. She keeps watching my whole interaction. Gives me some confident boost. I smirk at her afterwards. I like to think she felt at least a bit jealous I didn't approach her. Maybe the next time will be hers.

First unattempt approach

The girl sits on a bench. Not really my type or size. However, some wannabe entry level sport car drivers make my nerve speeding up in residential. They make a turn and stop in front of the girl and chat her up. I'm pissed and get the idea to approach steal. Not enough flow for it, I'm too much of a puss worrying they might get out the car. They seem pretty out of shape tho.

Second unattempt approach

The girl is 6 ft tall and eats some bread. I can only see her from the back. It's a hazard whether to approach or not, her clothes seem to keep her size a secret. I can't see her face, only her long blond hair. I punk out. I pass her by without looking at her face. Maybe she was a supermodel, I guess I ll never find out. The bread thing only crosses my mind later and I use it as an excuse.

Question

Is approach stealing acceptable from ethical point of view? Like if sb puts civilians in danger by hazardous driving, a small approach steal in their face shouldn't violate any bro code, right?