I'm a 24 year old guy who is currently unemployed with my parents, and a virgin that has never had a girlfriend nor kissed a girl.

Now I've been at home and unemployed since March of 2020, when I was 23. I turn 25 in a few weeks. I could've hustled or something, but I didn't. I do have quite a bit of money saved up however. Since I got vaccinated I've ramped up my job search, and I think this has also given me a renewed sense of urgency.

My situation is that I have several, and I mean at least 3-4 girls that I'm talking to now on dating apps that are willing to go on a date with me. They range in age from 19-23, which means not all are able to drink in the US so no bars or wine dates.

I watched this video here and he basically said I should remain a virgin. Considering I turn 25 in 3 weeks and have been frustrated for years, I refuse to accept this. But I don't know what the solution is. I'm already anxious about going on dates to begin with, but the logistics of what could develop are even more challenging. Still, I can't just get a job tomorrow and an apartment. I need to make enough money to afford one, in a field that is beneficial to me, and then getting a place takes time.

So what am I supposed to do? "Quit dating" even though I've only ever been on 3 dates and am a virgin? I'm not looking for instant gratification. But I also don't want to feel as though I'm wasting way time by setting up dates that may lead to nowhere. I already have enough guy and girl friends. I've had that for years. I want to try something different now and all I see is obstacles.