I thought that after finally doing my first approach, the second one would go more smoothly. It didn't. I went to two different parks and walked around for about two hours like an idiot and ended up doing nothing.
I realized something: you'll almost never find girls alone, 'waiting to be approached'. They are always either with a friend, boyfriend, in a group, or walking towards some destination.However, I did find two opportunities in which I could've approached: girls waiting at the bus stop, completely alone. But of course, I didn't do it. Couldn't overcome the approach anxiety and limiting beliefs this time.
I'm feeling pretty disappointed with myself. I really committed to doing some more game work today. I don't know what's wrong with me. My goal is not even to get their numbers, I just want to build the confidence to approach and build a short conversation.
Suggestions? Should I stop waiting for perfect opportunities and just try to approach all kinds of girls? And if that's the case, how do you usually do it? Do you just stop a girl that's walking or interrupt her from whatever she's doing? What about if she's with friends?Any advice is greatly appreciated :)
EDIT: Nightgame (Clubs or any social events) is out of the question becauase of COVID restrictions here. So no other alternatives but day game :p
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