I'm not good enough

N0thingT0SeeH3R3 · 2021-06-26T02:30:08+00:00

I know what your problem is because i’ve been there. Subconsciously you’re trying to please her and be her dream man, when that’s the issue. You’re TRYING. Relax. The fact that you made a post like this shows that you care too much. Truth is, you’re not gonna marry her. I don’t care about the movies you seen with high school sweethearts, or the books you’ve read talking about magically falling in love with your best friend. It doesn’t happen like that (Or if it does, it’s an uncommon case).

Everything you do is not for women. Read that again. You probably just said, “I don’t do everything for women! I do it for me!” Did you really believe that? Neither did we. You can’t avoid the fact that you’re still trying to please her and basically put her needs above yours. You’re looking at life the wrong way. You are the center of your universe. Everything that happens to you is because of you. Your success happened because you got it there and your failures happened, again, because of you. Knowing this, get up and do better for yourself. Wake up and tell yourself you look good. Remind yourself that you have attractive qualities, and get out there and live in what you speak. Go to the gym. Learn how to dress. Get better at conversation. Become more comfortable in your skin. The only way anyone else can like you, is if you love yourself. Like another user said, go study this subreddit. Look up the abundance mindset, and how to get over approach anxiety. Learn warm approach. Look up how to pull from your social circle. The answers are around you. You know somethings wrong. I just pointed out what it is. Now it’s your choice: Will you fix it? Or will you let another day go by, where other men can have your best friend as they wish? You either get with it, or get lost without it. Happy Pimpin’

sfanning3 · 2021-06-26T01:33:55+00:00

Make them chase you. Fuck them. And her. Work out. Take care of yourself. Find passions and yeet yourself into them. If you love yourself the rest will fall into place. Chin up.

haxor-007 · 2021-06-26T04:58:14+00:00

Self improvement and abundance mindset.

More you self improve, the more confidence you will have. “ oh i can get someone else just like her ,or even better”

Abundance mindset is “oh whatever, ill find another person among the billions on this earth”

iceberg6080 · 2021-06-26T14:48:48+00:00

man drop the feeling of having crush on someone its jst bs and somehow you not having to have your crush like you really breaks you.... so rather being in this kinda situation jst chill & maybe workout hangout with friends.... or do some other stuff that make you feel good...would even suggest if yur feeling too low jst smoke a cigg or something might feel better :)

Tyronegenfi · 2021-06-28T01:01:58+00:00

Yeah def don't try and be friends with your crush for while, your situation happened to me. Was friends with her assumed she knew I liked her, took her to a party, then I watched her make out with 5 guys lmao. Stopped talking to her worked on myself for like a year in the gym, got with other girls and she eventually hit me back up but I was like fuck out of here(in a nice way) Edit: Assert what you want early on

Futuremmagoat · 2021-06-26T03:02:43+00:00

In gonna put it this way for you, do you think your “crush” wants a guy who cries about her on the internet?

Efficient-Mud-2840 · 2021-06-26T05:25:43+00:00

You need to be slapped harder in the face. You don’t realize that you’d be sick of that girl in a matter of months. She’s not “the one,” she’s the same annoying girl like any other girl, and there’s millions just like her. Go make the approach and make your intentions known, or go find someone else. Either way, stop acting like a female and get out your feelings. Take action and stop sulking. If you’re not happy with your body, get your sorry ass in the gym. You think you’ll never find love because you haven’t dealt with enough women. Start approaching other girls and you’ll realize a lot of them are way cooler than this goofy broad you’re crying over

TheSunshineMan · 2021-06-26T01:27:24+00:00

You should have asked her out.

Next time you have a crush - ask her out.

Otherwise this will continue to happen for the rest of your life.

Title	I'm not good enough
Author	LeoDesperado24
Upvotes	3
Comments	31
Date	June 26, 2021 1:16 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/o80vnm/im_not_good_enough/
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