Just ended a date right now and holy s*** it was a great one. I wanna stay PG but suffice it to say it was only our second date but things were as hot and heavy as they could be.

I say that to establish context. Our first date was exactly a week ago and we kissed a few times and it seemed great. But then in the week leading up to tonight she started texting a lot less and taking longer to reply. She was also flirting a lot less and responding to my flirts in a less excited way.

I didn’t despair though. And I didn’t start texting her more or escalating my flirts. I knew our first date was great and I knew she liked me. So she was either busy or shit testing me because she liked me. I wasn’t gonna mess it up.

I simply matched her energy and stopped texting as much and flirting as much. I simply confirmed our second date and let her have her time.

Needless to say tonight we had a great date and couldn’t keep our hands off each other.

So guys, if she de-escalates that doesn’t necessarily mean a loss of attraction. It could mean a number of things. So just match her energy and don’t despair. If she still likes you, you will definitely see that soon enough.