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[–]bigmanpav 22 points23 points24 points 5 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Your relationship with her is over. Maybe angle for a threesome on your way out
[–]yurifca 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
My thoughts exactly.
Maybe is being too negative, but i would say this is the first sign that things are going from this to worse
[–]-Cachi- 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
It's not guys, she's just saying that she wants to open their relationship. But maybe she's OK with keeping it closed.
I'm like this myself, I like open relationships but if my SO doesn't want to it's fine. It's not a deal-breaker for me.
They just need to talk and find out if they want the same thing.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
She’s not necessarily saying she wants to open the relationship either. A sexual fantasy can be a sexual fantasy without people being into poly as well. From a females perspective with similar fantasies- she just wants the feeling of being full, of too much to handle, whatever. Super easily obtainable without another person in the equation at all. They just need to talk, and maybe post to Reddit less for relationship advice.
[–]-Cachi- 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ok yes I fully agree with this correction 👆
[–]wallynext 3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Never do something that you dont want to just to please someone
[–]muff_marauder 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Demand bisexual orgies:
You're the only man, and the women are the bisexuals 😊
[–]sadboysonly 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
A man of culture
[–][deleted] 5 points6 points7 points 5 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Married woman here: I just wanted to pipe up and say that I have fantasies about more than just my husband, and he knows it. She seems to like the idea of “more than she can handle” this doesn’t mean your relationship is over, in fact it creates new sexual territory for you, even without another human involved Try involving toys, it works out really well for us. The whole backtracking and justification after you shut her down? She’s probably just embarrassed and trying to remind herself fantasies are normal because they are I’d have a serious conversation about how you could satisfy this without other people. If she truly desires other people, or specific other people (that itself is an issue!), then it may be a problem you cannot get past.
[–]Schwartz_Master 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
There are so many different types of relationship you would be surprised, you both might be in love but its rare that fantasies disappear. Have you ever heard of cuckolding, hotwife... There are so many and these types of relationship need to be agreed upon, now if she asked you what you thought about her getting gang banged only means that she thrust you enough to believe you wouldn't break up over that, in her head she most likely thought worse case scenario he says no and that's it. You should be honest with her just as she was with you, talk to her about how you feel and ask her why she would want to do that you could compromise a little, I know the idea of you gf/wife with another man might not be too easy but try having sex while she's wearing a buttplug and blowing a dildo, that might be enough to spice things up enough to her taste
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Exactly ^ a bit more R rated than my reply, but exactly what this person says.
or the guy could just stand his ground and end it because he is not confortable with any of that
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Did you even see the post? Dude was wigging out over her reaction to his reaction over something she mentioned as a fantasy more than anything. Maybe he should, because he clearly isn’t mature enough to even have a conversation about a damn sexual fantasy. 😂
[–]supercalifragi123432 4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Cut your losses man
[–]ModeratorCaptain_w00t 3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You’re looking for different things (at least in the context of sex), that means that if she wants an orgy and you don’t, she’s going to be frustrated not getting it, or you’re going to suffer if she gets it.
[–]GhettoProhpet 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Yeah it's a done deal bro leave before your mentally destroyed I'm speaking from experience my gf of 3 years suggested a threesome but with another guy she already had picked out I soon realized that she was already banging this guy and just wanted to justify the cheating ask her for a three some with another girl and see how she responds I know I asked my ex and she totally denied after telling me she was bisexual multiple times
[–]IntelligentGlass8522[S] 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
She’s bi-sexual so it’s both ways
[–]GhettoProhpet 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I don't know my ex kept denying me a threesome we had to two individual girls willingly ready for one
[–]areyouseries 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I can't imagine staying in a relationship if she told me she wanted multiple dicks in her. Say what you want but I don't think a girl would be okay if I said "Listen honey, I love you but I want to fuck other pussies, preferably more than two."
Cut your losses before this eats at your mind and you start getting paranoid thoughts.
[–]Sultmaker_9000 -3 points-2 points-1 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
What do people gain from making up posts for things that don't exist?
Is it part of a strategy to gain followers, is it personal validation in the hope it blows up in the broader media. I still don't get this phenomenon.
[–]IntelligentGlass8522[S] -1 points0 points1 point 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Nah this shit real
OP your feelings are valid. It's OK to not want your partner to have sex with someone else. However, her feelings are also valid, it's OK if she likes the idea of having an open relationship.
If this is making you feel insecure about your relationship, you should have a serious conversation with her and find out if having a "closed" relationship (like the one you want) would be a deal-breaker for her.
If she's OK with not seeing other people, then you can happily continue your relationship. If she still wants to see other people, well then you both want different things so it's better to break-up.
Also a final tip: don't force yourself to like something just to "save" your relationship. This applies to hobbies, sex and life in general. If you don't feel like having an open relationship that's it. Don't do it just because you're afraid to lose her.
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