How do I ride the line between showing interest and making her chase me as well?

injesterstrust · 2019-01-04T14:56:24+00:00

basically one of the eternal issues people have when trying to learn 'game' because everyone who teaches it disagrees so much that you end up driving yourself crazy lol. Mystery says to hide intent and act aloof and uninterested etc as 'girls want what they can't have and like to chase, like a cat!'' etc. Then others advise super direct game beacuse it shows confidence in an exciting and sexy way etc.

Since everything works (no matter what you do, you are doing it 'correct' in the eyes of at least one guru) you can kind of do what you want! If you act aloof with this girl whilst being fun and stuff, mystery would pat you on the back. If you straight up tell you think she's cute, another guru would pat you on the back and say 'good game'!

So I tend to always just go with my instincts now. Save driving yourself crazy lol

In your situation, and especially since you think she's interested, i'd start giving her a fair bit of attention. Don't drool over her, but she should know that you at least PROBABLY like her lol. Make it obvious but not OBVIOUS! And assuming you don't get her recoiling! (some girls seem interested but are actually just friendly and thus the second they realise you 'like' them, will become guarded so as to not give you the wrong impression and lead you on) ask her out

canseiDeSerEnganado · 2019-01-04T22:42:05+00:00

Dont try to draw this line. Just go with your instincts.

samdvries · 2019-01-04T10:19:25+00:00

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ntipz011 · 2019-01-04T10:50:12+00:00

Talk to her, get her number, invite her on a date.

Idk what to say man, you're either too vague or there is no problem, just deal with it as any other pickup. If she's into you, invite her on a date.

xxsimplyjosh · 2019-01-04T15:33:26+00:00

I think direct works well only if she is somewhat emotionally invested and is high. At the start i like to put in a bit of joke and banter and tease to make her feel positive emotions before i go in for anything direct.

Cos sometimes if u go too direct on first go it can be quite too upfront and may scare her abit (ie no comfort at all)

jakeroviks · 2019-01-04T16:06:52+00:00

You ask her out.

Then if she says yes, you go on a date with her, and you as the man play it cool and allow her to win you over.

You have to take this first step though, because she's not going to do it for you.

Sidebar: I dated a chick I worked with and it went totally smooth. All depends on the people.

Title	How do I ride the line between showing interest and making her chase me as well?
Author	young_legendary
Upvotes	8
Comments	7
Date	January 4, 2019 10:04 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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