What's a good way to communicate "I'm pulling back because you flaked on me" without sounding salty about it?

onetwo3fakestreet · 2016-03-13T03:27:52+00:00

Nope. Sending that makes you sound like you get flaked on all the time. It also looks like you want her to get mad and keep talking to you. The only way to not care about flakes is to actually not care. You can't fake it.

ThrowawayPUA · 2016-03-13T04:14:46+00:00

Her: I can't make it tonight.
You: That's ok, I'll let you know how you can make it up to me.

Then cut contact. She will know she owes you. If that's not enough impetus for her to eventually re-initiate contact on her own, move on. You have already moved on. You have an awesome life full of exciting things to do, and you're going to do them whether she comes along or not. Her loss, not yours.

thegreatprestige · 2016-03-13T03:50:38+00:00

Just forget about her, onto the next one. If anything wait for her to text you first

DaygameCoach · 2016-03-13T04:05:25+00:00

I would just move on.

Woujo · 2016-03-13T07:33:05+00:00

I just go cold in situations like this. I don't doubt that you can still get her if you played your cards right, but I don't bother with girls that are anything but 100% for me. I follow the rule of I treat her just like she treats me. So next time she hits me up I ignore her.

MGHOW_ATL · 2016-03-14T02:55:13+00:00

Any response is a net win to her. Next.

ThirtyWize · 2016-03-13T06:56:36+00:00

If your true feeling is anger, you may want to keep that yourself. But, if you're a little disappointed, sending a little something in a text like "Aww I was really looking forward to tonight!" can help add to your cause. If she has any inclination to reschedule, she might use your disappointment as reason to try again.

Simple though. Nothing ridiculous about how amazing she is. We're not trying to make her feel awesome for flaking on us, right?

Title	What's a good way to communicate "I'm pulling back because you flaked on me" without sounding salty about it?
Author	Crashlands
Upvotes	3
Comments	10
Date	March 13, 2016 2:58 AM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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