Attractiveness of a girl drops drastically after sleeping with her

TheXXL · 2015-11-16T14:21:26+00:00

Probably it is an effect of not screening properly, if you only go for looks, rather than also take her character into the equation, this might happen pretty frequently.

Psychocist · 2015-11-16T13:45:33+00:00

I think that's mostly because part of the attraction is the thrill of the hunt. I love the feeling of making a girl fall for me, and yeah, I'll be attracted along the way, as long as I'm not sure of it. As soon as I "win", the game is over, and the thrill is gone.

TooLateForNever · 2015-11-16T22:57:03+00:00

a lot of times, i find i'd put up with more before having sex with them, then afterwards I would just not care to put up with them.

the goal is to find a girl that is super cool though, so sex is just a plus.

the situation i'm in now though, the girl is super cool, but is a virgin and seriously holding out for.. a while. i joked "not until marriage", and she said "no not that long.." but still... how long does super cool and beautiful cut it?

i guess i'll have to wait and see how i feel?

authenticsociallife · 2015-11-16T21:08:00+00:00

When that would happen, it would be usually because the woman and I didn't have much of a connection other than a physical one. Now that the physical part has been satiated, there's nothing left to connect us.

When I would meet women with similar interests and we vibed well together, I would find that the woman would become WAY more attractive to me afterwards.

GLOOTS_OF_PEACE · 2015-11-16T13:56:54+00:00

Not necessarily . I like girls more once ive banged them, if they were good

B2theP · 2015-11-16T18:27:46+00:00

I met this girl in Chicago a few months ago, she came to Indianapolis this last weekend and I banged her finally. She was just as attractive to me afterwards. Maybe it's not that they are less attractive as much as you only wanted to fuck them. If you're looking for more than just a one night stand that'll change. At least it did for me.

joshsway · 2015-11-16T19:32:33+00:00

It's normal from my experience. Just have to like her enough before that even after the drop off you still like her :)

NapalmOverdos3 · 2015-11-16T22:03:02+00:00

A lot of it for me comes from being absolutely hammered when I talk to girls most of the time. Beer goggles are a real thing apparently. But also its the fun of going out and building the attraction regardless of looks. After the night most times the attraction is gone because last nights feelings don't carry over when I wake up in the morning

Mi5ery · 2015-11-17T14:57:09+00:00

Yes it did but only when I fucked them just to fuck

fitnessguy1111 · 2015-11-16T23:12:27+00:00

Is this your way of bragging?

Title	Attractiveness of a girl drops drastically after sleeping with her
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Upvotes	19
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Date	November 16, 2015 12:58 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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