After I cum I lose all my motivation and even thinking about cumming leaves me in disgust.

RedSkeller · 2018-07-30T17:48:32+00:00

Normal, you realize how meaningless busting a nut is. What do you really want to be doing?

StrayFromThePathx · 2018-07-30T19:01:18+00:00

You gotta eat your cum immediately afterward so your body absorbs the testosterone back in. Zero refractory period. GL bro

Black_m0ngoose · 2018-07-30T21:13:15+00:00

You're validating your own mediocrity.

Sex was always closely linked with successful procreation.

All you're doing is gaming the system, and cheating out pleasure by milking sex for dopamine.

You're essentially still a slave to the beta industrial complex.

A man cannot build himself on pleasure.

He can only build himself through pain.

You'll often see men on the redpill run from pain.

They claim they're free.

But they just become slaves to fear.

They fear a return to slavery.

In in doing so, they invariably make fear into their master.

Fear is the mind-killer.

Pain is your greatest ally.

It will keep you honest.

It will never leave you.

It will always push you.

Don't run from pain.

Befriend pain.

A life without pain is a life without purpose.

4matting · 2018-07-30T18:36:32+00:00

Then just hold off from cumming until you've completed the things you need/want to get done.

Finish your dinner before moving on to desert.

nicholson- · 2018-07-30T19:07:51+00:00

Go monk mode on NoFap.

TehJimmyy · 2018-07-30T18:03:36+00:00

hormones

bonerpotpie · 2018-07-30T19:06:07+00:00

Does anyone here suffers from this too? What can I do to fix it?

You know how teachers say there are no such thing as dumb questions? This is a fucking dumb question.

[deleted] · 2018-07-30T19:11:04+00:00

You're supposed to be done like that after popping off. It's completely normal.

c_w_o_o_l_l_y · 2018-07-30T19:45:04+00:00

I get what you mean as far as this feeling like a problem. I'd love to be a spontaneous sexual deviant like my LTR always wants me to be, but I know as soon as I nut, my productivity for the rest of the day will be shot. Which leads me to often having to turn her down until bedtime. Not always, but often. It does suck.

The_Lightskin_Wonder · 2018-07-30T22:04:13+00:00

I have the same problem and it hurts when trying to maintain plates or relationships,

Once I bust, I'm ready to leave... Don't touch me, don't talk to me..I wanna go home now. Is my attitude after sex.

I have a high libido but those 15 minutes of clarity change me real fast lol

American_Gypsy1 · 2018-07-30T22:23:48+00:00

Are you sure this isn’t some kind of underlying psychological issue that was deeply ingrained into you as a kid?

OfficerWade · 2018-07-31T01:34:32+00:00

Well, Freued talked about Libido and its your sexual energy which is on the front of everything human beings achieve. i think once you bust a nut it removes this fog and now your not sure what to do. sorry if thats not what you wanna hear. but its normal.

pridebrah · 2018-07-30T20:07:23+00:00

I get being turned off right away, but disgusted with yourself? I get a surge of "primal energy" after sex. Like I just did some shit the testosterone in my veins was meant to do. Disgust is more of a feeling after jerking it to porn.

Title	After I cum I lose all my motivation and even thinking about cumming leaves me in disgust.
Author	PolanCJ
Upvotes	3
Comments	16
Date	July 30, 2018 5:46 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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