I don't see how people have success with clubs

KingJamesBlackMamba · 2020-02-09T19:28:13+00:00

To answer your questions:

Every girl that goes to a club are secretly there to meet a man, they know they will get approached. If you approach right and do the right things to make her feel good she will ditch her friends.
Dont be scared of guys, if you have confidence and the girl likes you...the guys will see that and respect you while the girl will be more open to talk to you.
lol well that I cant say, some places 75/25, others 50/50. If you want a higher volume of women go to latin clubs, south american clubs.
talk louder, show dominant body language.
You will also be 1-2 points lower when the lights turn on. Dont judge girls based solely on what you find attractive, no ones perfect and I guarantee you if the girl and you like each other enough the scales wont matter.

WIA20XX · 2020-02-09T21:10:08+00:00

1) girls are always in closed off groups

Open the group.

2) hottest girls are behind tables and almost always in a mixed group with guys.

The girls dance.

Open the guys first to establish relationships.

3) 80-20 ratio of guys to girls

Most of the guys are background, very little competition.

4) music is loud as fuck and you can't talk to anyone.

Learn to dance and communicate nonverbally. Then move girl to quiet part of club.

5) dark as fuck, any girl you meet will be 1-2 points lower in the light.

You are 1-2 points more attractive.

This is all PUA 101. Nothing that couldn't have been solved with a quick search on Google, Reddit, or YouTube.

UneAmi · 2020-02-09T22:03:01+00:00

In my experience: Be very hot looking guy, and girls will come to him, even he is a doucebag with no job and milking $$ off another girl from a different city.

RiceGohan · 2020-02-09T18:55:42+00:00

I haven’t had the biggest success in the clubs for this very reason. But it doesn’t mean there is any success. For me it’s all about finding timing in everything. There will always be a time that one hottie leaves for a a smoke break that’s the time you spring up a question do you have a light or whatever you please. If anything this is the intro to get into her life in later days. Another thing is dance well. Have enough rhythm that when you dance with a girl they keep coming to you. Dancing is such an attractive way for getting females. Have rhythm use upper and lower body. Don’t be awkward when you dance either. Be touchy but not too touchy. -RiceGohan

GomboAndGimlee · 2020-02-10T04:13:08+00:00

Club game is mostly visual. Your body, clothing, mannerisms, who's in your group, eye contact, smiling and having a good time.

Going to a loud club expecting to talk your way into a woman's pants is often a recipe for disappointment.

RiceGohan · 2020-02-09T18:57:17+00:00

You will be tipsy anyways so the points will then double. .. who cares if there are other men in the area. “Just cause there is a goalie doesn’t mean you can’t score “-佐吉

2020-02-09T19:03:23+00:00

Maybe its just where u live. I live in a college town.... its like more girls in clubs than dudes

smoothmax · 2020-02-09T19:20:22+00:00

I haven't seen the product, I've only seen a couple of videos where he talks about certain aspects of it. But Alex Social aka 4week Natural teaches club game and has a method covering all the basic steps, approaching to pulling.

Not endorsing his product or telling you it's worth paying for, but I like his vibe and his free content. He's a long time coach with RSD for like, 10 years and now he's independent or rather has his own company.

Like many longtime coaches he seems to be wavering in his commitment to PUA recently, trying to re-skill as a photographer and/or lifestyle coach or something. But he's a legit club game coach.

pureresilience11 · 2020-02-10T00:18:34+00:00

i honestly have no idea. i've tried it hardcore for 2-3 weekends in a row. approaching like a mother fucker and implementing the shit out of all the content i've learned. walked away with like 20 flakey numbers and decided i just can't figure out nightgame. maybe nightgame works for a particular type of guy, idk. obv people are fucking from nightgame, but it doesn't work for me, and i went hard as fuck

i do daygame now

2020-02-10T00:51:24+00:00

Clubs are not ideal for gaming, itll be for the most part focused on 3 aspects

Confidence/ Fun 2. Dance ability 3. Ability to stand out.

None of which are debatable, you have to display them and convey them non verbally through actions.

youryuumtsau · 2020-02-10T17:16:31+00:00

Female in her 20s who loves clubbing here-

Thought I’d give some insight into women. I can’t speak for all women but I do have a lot of experience 😛

So first off- clubbing for women can be a really intimidating or even scary experience. 1 out of 5 college age women in the US have been sexually assaulted or raped, so roughly 20% of women in general have some trauma surrounding men.

So being in a dark room, surrounded by men you don’t know can seem unsafe. Especially because it’s really common for you to be grabbed, touched, or kissed by random men. It’s creepy as hell (speaking from experience)

So most women who hang out in groups are either hanging out because of safety, they are not looking to hook up, or they are just enjoying dancing with their friends.

So in my mind, the first step to meeting someone at the club is to signal that you are not a spooky person. One easy way to do that is to go to the club with a mixed group of friends. If I see you have friends who are women, I am much more likely to feel comfortable getting to know you. Try to have your group merge with a neighboring group of girls and all start dancing together. You can even ask a girl in your original group to make it happen. Just ask, if we feel safe around you, we will help you out 🙂

Then smile, be yourself and be kind! Try to ask their name or make them laugh. Granted, it’s loud at clubs so it might not always be possible, but I know at most clubs I’ve been to there are more quiet areas, maybe near the bar, or lockers where maybe you could chat more.

Try to read body language. Women will make it clear if they are not interested- putting space between you and them, shifting attention to other people for long amounts of time. Don’t stress if that happens, sometimes there just isn’t chemistry (or they just aren’t interested in meeting someone right now) and that is okay. just be confident and move on to someone else.

Otherwise, if things seem to be going well, make your move. Ask them to dance, kiss or whatever.

Caveat- There are mixed feelings about asking for permission- many women (including me) think it is really sexy to be asked because it shows respect, but some women might appreciate you just going for it. Asking is the safest option IMO because it takes out all the guesswork, and if they aren’t interested, you can move on to someone else.

A word of caution- don’t be pushy. It reinforces the idea that you are not a safe person to be around.

On the other side, I was making out with this guy I met at the club recently and my friends wanted me to go home with them. I could tell the guy was a little bummed when I told him, but he was like “go for it, your friends need you” and asked we exchange instagram. I was SO DAMN IMPRESSED I could not stop telling my friends about it. We ended up meeting again that next week.

Anyways, I hope those are helpful tips ♡ good luck out there

TLDR: 20% of women have been assaulted so signal you are a safe person, be kind, try to get to know them, ask permission, don’t be pushy

Title	I don't see how people have success with clubs
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Date	February 9, 2020 6:49 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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