I never paid much attention to women and the very few I do ends up friend zoning me into oblivion. It makes sense when I show no sexual intent. I am a chill guy and gave off this serious aura before becoming a social monster last year. Here's a true story.

I showed no interest to any female and at the same time improved my posture, speaking and how I'm seen by everyone. I swore I could have gone further with this one girl. A HB8 and she showed multiple IOI's. We did have a semester together so we knew each other a bit more. However, she wasn't dying to get with me or wanted more.

But on other occasions, one female gave me her number when I treated her like a stranger or an acquaintance and wasn't clingy. A different HB8. I wasn't hungry for attention and focused on my life. She practically gave hints to a date, heading to a bar, all I needed to do was say yes. I wasn't up for it though and never saw her more than a friend.

In my recent semester, I liked this one female, HB 9 but she instantly grew cold after seeing me go beta or happy when I saw her. All I did was smile and agree with her and that's not fun in a girl's perspective. Women wants a challenge, not a lapdog. Afterwards, never batted an eye in her direction unless to hand her something. One other female in this class gave IOI, sat near me in a lab when I was across the room, gave eye contact but since I didn't really like her despite the appearance, she stuck around often and worked to validate herself. Same with another female who's done the same and really grew interested, asking what I was doing during the weekend out the blue.

The key thing to take away from my understanding is don't be dazzled by a female's beauty because you'll fall into her trap. Treat them like a sister or someone you can chill and see them for who they are. Never be willing to kiss the feet they walk on. They shit, fart, do nasty things like all of us. Destroy the media perception. They're humans, not goddesses.

Neg them, tease them, make eye contact, be comfortable in their presence and make them work to get your affection. When you're not kissing ass and give off a vibe you can get any woman you want, they'll want a piece of that. And if you get rejected, there are hundreds of thousands of women in your area who are more than willing to join you. One woman's loss is another woman's treasure.