Is it my personality? Or how I interact with people? 19 F

shakedown_st · 2016-12-25T04:44:25+00:00

Truth be told, you should probably cut down to 150 lbs. With a proper diet and exercise, you could probably hit that goal in 7 to 8 months.

Jacob_961 · 2016-12-25T09:07:46+00:00

Sorry to burst your bubble miss but you need to lose weight. It's not a personality issue. If a guy was ugly with no prospects but a heart of gold, would you date him?

moontripper1246 · 2016-12-25T11:58:13+00:00

Start working out and drop the weight. Sorry to be so blunt but attraction is different for girls than for guys. Girls get a lot farther with straight up looks, guys get a lot farther with seduction skill and personality. It sounds like your pretty cute besides your weight, so I'm sure once you drop it you'll be a bombshell, but it is that that's the factor here.

Just read another commenter call you a loud mouth bitch....guys an ass. I like loud mouthed bitches. They're fun and don't hide their feelings like a lot of other people. But I like sexy girls more, and so does every other guy. But you should know, your personality will be a huge bonus once your sexy too. A friend of mine compliments girls when they have a great disposition with "You have a fat girl personality", cause your kind of right. When a sexy girl wants attention, she just has to stand there, she can be daft, she can be uninteresting. But when a thicker girl wants attention, she's got to have a really shining personality to be welcomed and accepted.

A friend of a friend actually dropped a lot of weight for dating somewhat recently. She was lamenting her issue...something like...."I feel like I dropped the weight for everyone but myself...." To be honest I didn't get what she meant, cause she seemed happier and she got more attention from guys. But maybe find a subreddit where other chicks have gone through this kind of thing as well. They can help you better than we can, I think.

Best of Luck!

Edit: Oh, and merry christmas!

forseti_ · 2016-12-25T09:32:21+00:00

If you want to be a police officer and currently weight 200lbs. Join a gym. This might also help the attraction problem you have. If you feel more attractive other people will also see this in you.

TheXXL · 2016-12-25T18:33:10+00:00

It's funny how all the comments concentrate solely on your weight issues, sure men are visual people, but most of the guys commenting here don't seem to have much life experience. Fact is, that many men are very tolerant of weight in women, and of course there's always a group of guys who won't admit that, or really can't see past it. Judging from your pictures you are nothing more than a little chubby, this cannot be the only reason for your problem. Why do I think that? Simply because I have known a lot of girls throughout my 40years of life, and many of them are/were chubby and still had more lovers than the average seddit lurker. My last fb was also about 100kg, and I on for a fact that she had times where she had 2 to 3 dates a day through online dating. When I was out with her, guys were hitting on her constantly.

What's her recipe? She was extremely sexual. She was extremely outgoing, she pretty much made friends with people in minutes after walking into a bar or club. She had a low amount of shame and knew what she wanted.

Also she dressed very Sexy. Maybe try changing your wardrobe a little bit, and look into posture, but trust me, your body weight is definitely not the reason why you have no success.

BadWolf319 · 2016-12-26T18:52:35+00:00

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MattyAnon · 2016-12-27T01:28:35+00:00

200lbs

here are some pictures of me

Are these picture you at 200 lbs though, or are these old pics and you've put on weight since?

BadWolf319 · 2016-12-27T02:32:57+00:00

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Jacob_961 · 2016-12-25T09:03:51+00:00

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Title	Is it my personality? Or how I interact with people? 19 F
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Date	December 25, 2016 4:04 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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