Sexual Negging - How do you do it?

Hip-HopHead · 2014-12-29T11:52:11+00:00

Instead of saying, "I wasn't even thinking of that... you dirty minded girl!" you could say, "What? (act like you can't hear her) You want to send me nudes already? Hold on, I don't think we're ready for that yet. Sorry, I don't know you that well. How about we go out for some coffee first?"

Try not to call people names or insult them. Think from her perspective. How the hell do you respond to a man who just called you a dirty minded girl?

Immadeadbird · 2014-12-29T11:31:22+00:00

be genuine and not contrived and your flirting will come through.

Negging is simply a imitation of a flirt. Sometimes I unconsciously neg a woman due to pure curiosity.

example

wow I really like that color of your lip stick. it has an extremely deep color. I suppose you wear you because its seasonal. ( I thought it matched her skin tone where she was quite beautifully pale and the deep red made a very nice contrast.)

I actually said this to a woman and in retrospect it was probably in a form of a neg. but because I said it genuinely I had all the other factors in place such as tone, body language, eye contact, and a billion other social ques that show authenticity.

when you're authentic, you instinctual do subtle actions that women find attractive, which is very difficult to actually replicate when you're trying to force negs.

edit: grammar and stuff

Edit 2: the reason why I think negs work is because the people who are doing them actually believe them to a sort and are able to represent them without nervousness and with abandonment that conveys confidence. Imo majority of the work they do comes from how they portray themselves rather than the actual content of their words. That the neg is only a pretense to demonstrate how they feel in a humorous, confident, or genuine way.

the_modern · 2014-12-29T23:33:36+00:00

Rather than make jokes about them being too dirty, make jokes about how you are sexually unatainable. If a girl says "no nudes" respond with "of course not, you gotta pay for that shit" or "not until you buy me dinner at least"

dj_bizarro · 2014-12-29T12:15:46+00:00

That's what I do. I still send cock pics and I still get nudes.

DaygameCoach · 2014-12-29T17:11:03+00:00

On dates, if they go sexual like that early...I tell them "You are going to need to slow down. I'm not that kind of guy...pretty soon you will be chasing me around the bed!" It's funny, a reframe, a roleplay, and a future project. I don't do that with female friends (since I'm not trying to get them).

JesperSB_com · 2014-12-29T22:26:18+00:00

You are not neg'ing her. You are flirting, and you are framing her into a sexual position. Which is good.

If you only do it once, then she thinks you have a problem with sexual... special If you have difficulty conveying the playful attitude.

When you do it 5-6 times you will have it easier with conveying the playful vibe.

Maybe add something like... "I wasn't even thinking that... you dirty minded girl! Me like

Neg'ing is putting her down, and that shows you don't think you are worth of the girl.

Title	Sexual Negging - How do you do it?
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Date	December 29, 2014 10:56 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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