Making progress with opening lone girls but I freeze up with a a group of girls - What are some good openers for multiple girls?

nowwhatjoe · 2016-09-11T06:15:18+00:00

I know there are tons of widely used routines like "I need a female opinion on something...", etc. Just google it.

Opening just one of the girls is okay too, but you have to quickly involve her friends in the conversation, or otherwise they'll resent you and try to move away.

Cubidomum · 2016-09-11T17:10:22+00:00

I like to sit down and say "Sorry I'm late. Traffic was a bitch".

muirnoire · 2016-09-11T07:11:33+00:00

There are so many better ways to approach than approaching a group. I never single girls out in a group - just get them all laughing and the one who likes you will do the work. Trying to pick and choose from a group rarely works. Working groups is just making life hard for yourself. Just relax and sit down with them if you can. The longer you present as an outsider the less your chance of integrating which is what you need to do with groups. Integrate then isolate.

cosmicdickslinger · 2016-09-11T07:47:55+00:00

Definitely engage the group. One thing I like to say is "Do I have permission to flirt with your friend for like 2 minutes" or if I feel like they like me "Do you approve of this couple" when they say yes the girl feels like she has permission from her friends to talk to you

recyclablebanthas · 2016-09-11T18:57:41+00:00

Don't ask for "permission." You're bargaining your power down to start off, from the assumption that you shouldn't be talking to them.

Also, without having talked to them yet, you won't necessarily have any idea about who the most attractive one (inside and out) will be until you do talk to them.

As for openers.... You could go with an opinion opener. Or you could be original and use your observational skills to give you something relevant to comment about. Something unusual or funny happening? Comment on it. Have a question about something you actually want to know about or about the situation? Ask it.

You don't need something canned.

pacg · 2016-09-11T23:55:13+00:00

Remember to add the time constraint to your opener to reduce discomfort. If they want you to stay then all the better. You'll create the push-pull desire of wanting more of you.

DeffyLables · 2016-09-14T01:56:32+00:00

Have the cocktail girl bring them one beer with as many straws as there are girls.

Title	Making progress with opening lone girls but I freeze up with a a group of girls - What are some good openers for multiple girls?
Author	gtrman571
Upvotes	23
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Date	September 11, 2016 5:18 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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