Can you be a player with morals?

freybeard · 2013-05-11T11:02:55+00:00

"you can't have a conscience in the pimp game." -The Other Guys

POOKDIDDY · 2013-05-11T19:17:35+00:00

I have personal boundaries that I won't cross or if a girl crosses them then it's over. For example, I am always honest and express myself openly with a girl. What she sees is what she gets 100% no filters or bullshit.

SingAlong_Original · 2013-05-11T06:33:59+00:00

Morals how? Honestly you could have no or many morals and she will fall into which ever one. Are you trying to get into something deeper

2013-05-11T06:48:53+00:00

... What?

2013-05-11T15:51:10+00:00

Of course you can. Believe it or not, honesty is attractive. It's how you communicate that honesty that's the issue. I've hooked up with a bunch of random girls -- and at no point did I feel I was violating my moral code. I told them what was up, I didn't trick them into sex, I wasn't "running game" on them. Sex was just an extension of the relationship we had, whether it was as friends or just one awesome night. I built an emotional connection with each of them, obviously the depth varying depending on the time involved.

I wasn't trying to trick them into falling for me or sleeping with me, those things were just a byproduct of me being me. If they told me they had feelings for me, and they weren't reciprocated, I told them. Yeah, it probably hurt to hear (it always does), but they were all thankful that I was straight with them. Some introduced me to their friends.

If a (mentally healthy) girl respects you and likes you as a person, she won't feel that you played her and she won't regret sleeping with you, even if it didn't turn into a relationship.

K1ng_W1zard · 2013-05-11T08:05:59+00:00

Those aren't morals, that's a code.

seduction_scrub · 2013-05-12T00:42:24+00:00

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xander1994 · 2013-05-11T14:42:25+00:00

Short answer, no. Choosing to be a player is conscious decision to forgo morals and practice promiscuity. What you have are guidelines that will make for the least amount of toes stepped on

Title	Can you be a player with morals?
Author	seduction_scrub
Upvotes	4
Comments	38
Date	May 11, 2013 6:24 AM UTC (13 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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