Should you ever let the woman set up the date?

2016-02-16T04:09:32+00:00

First tell her than you don't like the restaurant and offer to go somewhere else. Example: Girl: hey sorry I had to flake on you, you want to meet at McDonald's this weekend? Op: it's cool no worries. I don't really like McDonald's though...can we go to Wendy's instead?

She is obviously interested in YOU and this seems like She wants to reschedule. There is nothing wrong with this situation. Women ask me to go out with them all the time. And that is exactly what she is doing. Asking you out.

TheXXL · 2016-02-16T08:02:23+00:00

Whats the problem? if you dont like the place, tell her another place. If you are cool with that restaurant anyways, just meet her there...

You know that people met even before pickup was invented, and they even had sex! sometimes even after a first date O.o... it sounds like a legend, but my grandgrandgrandgrandfather told me that it happend back then... not sure if he wanted to trick me though.

Murfdigidy · 2016-02-16T01:22:53+00:00

Say you can't make it that day but you're free so and so how bout meeting me here (insert restaurant or coffee joint of your choice)

franhd · 2016-02-16T01:49:34+00:00

I don't see why it's bad if she plans it. On the other hand, if you're on a date and it's going absolutely nowhere, then yeah, you should lead it to go somewhere. But I'm personally okay with letting girls lead me sometimes so I'm not the one who carries that burden 100% of the time.

DaygameCoach · 2016-02-16T02:53:47+00:00

This is her trying to make it up to you...take it. I might do it differently myself (I have a food-based identity), but to me, you are an unknown, so I'm not going to tell you to change it.

ThrowawayPUA · 2016-02-16T03:17:54+00:00

Generally you want to take the woman out of her usual environments. She is bored of the same old people and the same old places. She wants you to show her your exciting life.

But you've got to work with what you've got.

supermanshazam · 2016-02-16T06:10:12+00:00

If she wants to and it sounds good to you, by all means. You can even lead her to lead you eg. "I don't drink coffee but I love frozen yoghurt. Show me a place you like". If she's trying to seduce you, let her

Juus · 2016-02-16T11:09:47+00:00

If shes asking you out for something specific she wants to do, just go with the flow. If you talk about "doing something some time", then you should definitely take the lead and set it up.

Title	Should you ever let the woman set up the date?
Author	TheNaughtyGarbageMan
Upvotes	0
Comments	10
Date	February 16, 2016 1:07 AM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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